maybe it is a former co-work they're has some contacts and you need to reach out and ask, it might feel, you know, a little bit co-uncomfortable, tough bring yourself to be able to reach out and ask others for help. >> you say use your strengths? >> that's right. >> you do kind of -- sometimes when there are defeat, want to beat yourself up, not doing this right, but instead, you say you need to accentuate the positive, they say. >> it's very easy to focus on everything do you wrong, at some point, tough say what am i good sat in what are my strengths? how can i tap into those to help me move forward in the future? >> valerie burton, i don't know if folks got a chance to see your shoes, they are popping off the screen, popping in front of me here, they are very cute, and that's one way to -- >> thank you. >> spring into 2011, right? >> that's right. helps you bounce back when you like the shoes. >> exactly. all right, valerie burnt, thanks so much. >> thanks. president barack obama dropping some hints about his state of the union address tuesday night. we will reveal them after this.