sure that my other kids were okay, so we just ran across the parking lot until we, you know, finally got to our vehicle, and there were other gracious individuals there that were offering, you know, us to get into their vehicle for safety. >> lots of hugging tonight. lots of time siblings, you guys like to fight and what have you. do you appreciate your family and your sister more now? >> yeah, very much. there was a very high chance that i could have lost not just my mom but my sister, and my sister's friend also, so definitely put things in perspective for you. >> yeah. deena, want to give you the last word here n.tragedies like this it's hard to explain to children what it means, if anything. adults don't always know. what piece of advice do you have for not only your daughters but for families watching this and who are dealing with tragedies. >> you know, my heart goes out to them, and honestly, i just