to sit here. >> i'm not saying a word. >> they are shared jewels now. >> you are like a married couple but you're not. >> that's the first question that i have for you. happily unmarried for 25 years. >> 27. >> what is the secret tip? >> there is no secret. >> there is and i'll tell you. the secret is of having shannon be the teacher to all of the women on planet earth about how to keep a relationship interesting, sexy and forever changing. >> you just decided not to get married? >> marriage part is not conventional but everything sells conventional. >> increasingly conventional if you look at society. >> how do you raise your kids. would you let your kids go to your shows? >> rocker kids? >> full disclosure, i've never been high or drunk in my life