little off, go somewhere else. >> you see this person online, you want to meet him somewhere? >> you don't get to meet him until you've gotten a meeting of minds. you communicate by e-mail. have a lot of conversation. go to a webcam. use a phone. make sure you get one of those toss away cell phones so you're not ruining your own number. >> really? it's almost like spycraft here. >> it is. this is mr. goodbar in a whole new decade. we need to realize, bottom line, it's about safety. background checks will tell you whether or not they're married. you can debt it in the system. trust your gut. don't give up anything that you don't want to. do bare your breasts or your soul before you're ready to. >> that's a general rule when it comes to the internet. >> actually, when it comes to anything. >> it is. but it's interesting how few people actually follow that rule. >> let's say you've gotten to the point where you've had an online liaison or maybe you've