eharmony. how can you be sure your date isn't really mr. wrong or ms. wrong or you aren't flirting with a felon? >> yeah, new york and new jersey first states offering regulations requiring sites to post safety tips requiring their mens to go through background tips. joining us is parry aftab. are these regulations making any difference, do you know? >> they're requiring sites to do what they should do anyway. every site should have safety tips. what are you charging your users for and what are you giving them? >> do these sites do background checks routinely? some of them do, some don't? >> most of them don't, tru.com is the one that give background checks. you can do your own background checks. >> let's talk about online dating. let's say for some reason carol decides that she needs an online