we better deal with this recovery in a more positive and empowered way. >> there's nothing wrong with the situation we're in. it's just a cycle that we're going through? >> well, meaning that these are very tough times that we're going through, it's our new reality but we're learning from it and as a family we can persevere. we can still keep a smile on our faces, happiness in our hearts, and as a unit, as a team, work towards getting through this economy and being a stronger family. it's not about the money, it's not about the items or the material things, it's really about the love. and those kids are learning that we saw that in those letters that were written to the chief of pete fontana. >> jeff, we've been through hard times in this country before. as some would argue, a lot more