parents to educate the norms of behavior. and honestly when i look at an incident like this, i don't think that the misbehavior stems from what they are doing right this minute. the misbehavior stems at some level from a failure to absorb lessons that they should have absorbed all through school, that these kinds of things -- >> hopefully it will make a difference. it's offensive and harms people. hopefully they will learn from this and hopefully others out there won't do it. >> absolutely and the more we can use these as teachable moments the better off we are. >> educate, educate, educate. excellent point. here's a story a lot of you are talking about today. anita hill stood by claims that clarence thomas sexually harassed her. that was 19 years ago. why would she be asked to apologize after two decades? the controversy is trending on twitter after this bizarre voicemail from thomas's wife.