awful chain of events turned worse. i have asked her family to join me and here they are today graciously. they agreed already with tears in their eyes i see. this is lucretia, jeff, toby. i know it's tough. i'm sick to my stomach even sitting here with you and having to talk about your daughter, your sister. but it's a story you want to get out. first let's go back a couple of months. this accident was in july here in georgia. you are burying your daughter, horrific enough. you're beginning to get over what happened. and, jeff, you get a text message. take me back when did you get it? >> it was september 29th. we were at home. got a call from my sister. she said that her ex-husband, ex-brother-in-law of mine, had received a text video and that