esteem. save their lives. >> reporter: it's his promise to a boy who loved his family. hunting and the st. louis cardinals. >> we haven't done ty's last load of laundry because it still smells like him. we haven't washed his sheets, because i can go in there and lay on his bed and still smell my boy. you want to learn what bullying and suicide is all about, you talk to the people directly who it affects the most. >> 41 states now have anti bullying laws on the books. some are effective, some not. that's why it's so important we get those federal guidelines in place. and mr. smalley, if you are listening, kevin jennings, the deputy secretary of education, says thank you for sharing your story, because stories like ty smalley's, stories like that, are going to get something done quicker, because, tony, as we