just said relax. she had serious kidney disease and they missed it. you have to be out there. there she is with her cousin, david cantor who gave her the kidney. she's doing great. thank goodness. >> you say this all came at a very vulnerable time for you. you just had a newborn baby. she had to be in the intensive unit for newborns and you realized she was getting spinal taps after the doctor said she didn't need them anymore and you couldn't bridge that gap between explaining to the nurses that she didn't need to undergo that painful procedure for a little infantersus what your doctor had told you. what happened? >> what happened was she was supposed to receive some spinal taps and she did. then the doctor said, okay, no more. but then i went down and she had just received an unnecessary one and was about to get another one. there's my daughter right after she was born. i said to the nurse, she's not supposed to get anymore. no more spinal taps. she said, oh, no, she gating another and you have to leave. >> i was just so upset.