lifestyle and the women you've entertained over the years, what are a couple of things you've done that you're most proud of? >> i think the major thing that i take the greatest pride in is playing some real part in changing the social sexual values of my time. and i think my place is secure in that. >> was that a conscious crusade on your part, or did it just kind of develop once you started publishing this magazine? >> it evolved over a period of time. certainly the commitment in terms of my life was there earlier. i actually wrote a paper while i was in college comparing the kinsey report on sexual behavior in the male to the laws in the then 48 states and made the point that if the laws were effectively applied most adult men would be serving some prison time. we helped to change those laws. back in the 1950s nice middle-class moral kids could not live together before they got married. to have a baby out of wedlock