wrote to my family whose values will resonate with people in the boardroom, on the basketball court and at the dinner table. >> larry: terrific part of the book is you -- michelle introducing barack to you and the parents. you conclude that he is the kind of guy your sister would not run over, but your parents predict she would eat him alive. so they were wrong. what did you see in him? >> you know, there wasn't anything, you know, spectacular that i saw. i think the way i was looking at it is being on that side of the fence, which i had been where you go to meet the family of the woman you're dating, i thought he carried himself extremely well. he was tall, first of all, and my sister is almost six feet tall herself. so i knew she would like that. and he was -- he was obviously intelligent, but he had a great sort of emotional intelligence to him. you know, he connected well with