And it comes from both sides. Absolutely. Maybe even more on one trump side. I read a statistic that they are truncating their thanksgiving one or two hours less not to fate fight with each other and then to talk about anything other than politics than something to talk about it has gotten worse and worse. As a psychotherapist did you see this during the george w. Bush administration or the Reagan Administration . Or the Obama Administration . Yes but it was under control. Be were not getting parent saying they would rather say somebody marries a different race or religion then a different political party. Races to normal and one of those was a lovely guy very nice who lives on the west coast he had to take that he was a trump supporter off of his dating profile because nobody would go out with him. He was very intelligent and was in the military and meta girl and really liked her and they had a lot in common and went on one date and said i will kill him how can we do this he said i think we have a chance will you talk to her . Will you be my gobetween . And she was very thoughtful. Why is it i consider them the antichrist . So we had a long conversation i didnt say go back to him but have you ever been in a situation or somebody didnt treat you well or if they did then didnt . And i told her ricks line that this is the basis and is called the chemotherapy test this is the fact when you are alone on the hospital bed getting chemotherapy you do not ask the Party Affiliation of the person who was standing next to you getting you through it and we both came to this understanding in that bed and next to that bad on the bed and that two matters to me. He passed the test he was there constantly my nextdoor neighbor in new york who is passionate who did not like trump she came and did my laundry and my closest friend at the time who was a local democrat and psychoanalys psychoanalyst, never showed up. And i had a remarkable story and a chapter called what is a core value . Its who you vote for and this is a young woman that i know very well. And was serious progressive but who came and the uncle and the ex marine who came and helped her with everything. And she did something that somebody almost never does and saw the bickering on facebook and that was traumatized and said i misjudged you i will never forget it. Tonight, 9 p. M. Eastern on cspan2. Now the real reason we are all here. Tonights featured author is considered to be the leading expert on the history of modern american soldiers and combat. His bestselling and awardwinning books include the dead and those about to die, september the and deadly sky. John is a curators professor for military history at the Missouri University of science and technology. He recently finished a oneyear visiting professorship at the u. S