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Periods. And what about us right here . Are we so different . Do negative attitudes in our Society Still lurk and prevail and those stereotypes, misogynistic stereotypes. You are too emotional you are in a bad mood have you experienced that . These attitudes, our period still seen as taboo for some . Is there a lack of understanding from many. We have what is called period poverty right here right now. Do we take period seriously . I really am looking forward to this conversation. Get in touch. And here is the news from deena campbell. Senior Police Officers in Northern Ireland are due to be questioned this morning about a major data breach. The details of thousands of officers and civilian Staff Members were made public by mistake. A Search And Rescue mission is continuing in hawaii, where at least six people have been killed in wildfires. The Tourist Town Of Lahaina on the Island Of Maui has been badly hit. Marks and spencer, politicians and environmental groups are calling on the government to remove the 20 vat on period underwear. The open letter asks for the tax on the products to be lifted in the upcoming autumn statement. Travel agents and online Tour Operators say the uk s wash out summer has caused an increase in last minute bookings for holidays abroad. The industry says all inclusive deals are especially popular, as people try to control their spending. Do we take periods seriously . To the stereotypical negative attitudes, the stigma, lurking under the surface two or not conspicuously. Your experiences are as ever all important. Menstrual leave, the first legislation, it is part of it obviously, the first minute legislation for paid Menstrual Leave was in the soviet union in 1922. It was introduced under the bolshevik regime five years after the revolution to provide women working in factories with two or three days of paid leave per month. Which countries have some form of paid. Two we do not have it any more russia. Which countries haveit it any more russia. Which countries have it now . Indonesia since 19118, japan since 1947, south have it now . Indonesia since 1948, japan since 1947, south korea since 2001, taiwan, 2002, zambia 2015, and famously, spain, 2023. This year. It was a fascinating debate, an iberian debate. I was following it at the time, very closely in my house where i have four adult daughters. Call 08085 909 693. Text 85058. The whole issue of period pants and Menstrual Leave. These are symptomatic, emblematic of attitudes in our society. Let us talk to molly fenton, founder of love your Period Campaign group. Good morning. Goad campaign group. Good morning. Good morninu. Campaign group. Good morning. Good morning and campaign group. Good morning. Good morning. And manjit campaign group. Good morning. Good morning. And manjit gill, campaign group. Good morning. Good morning. And manjit gill, the campaign group. Good morning. Good morning. And manjit gill, the first. Morning. And manit gill, the first eriod morning. And manit gill, the first period charity morning. And manjit gill, the first period charity registered morning. And manjit gill, the first period charity registered in morning. And manjit gill, the first period charity registered in the. Morning. And manjit gill, the first | period charity registered in the uk, india, gambia and the usa. What i want to get to as the negativity that still lingers, the taboo, the stigma, do women in our country in 2023 still encounter this on a daily basis . What is your experience or the expense of others . The expense of others . 100 . All these tepics the expense of others . 10096. All these topics link the expense of others . 10096. All these topics link together, the expense of others . 10096. All these topics link together, we the expense of others . 10096. Alli these topics link together, we are not only talking about a tax on what comes from periods, this is body positivity, body acceptance, teaching young girls, being a woman is a pretty cool thing, but at the moment we are teaching them. Bank . What do you come across . We are trying to get your zoom effects at the moment, but we can hear you. What is your experience of this . Love your period works are renting Menstrual Cycle. We have very little knowledge and we talk to young people about this because no one talked to us growing up on the facts that came at puberty, things like contraception, our body is changing and what it means, a negative effect when you look in the mirror and you see that youre changing and the way your body look changes and nobody has told you why. Everything that happens being a woman, there is a lack of education around it, we are not taught these things and they can negatively transpire into our day to day happenings. Negatively transpire into our daytoday happenings. Manit gill, is that our daytoday happenings. Manit gill, is that your experience . Daytoday happenings. Manit gill, is that your experience . We daytoday happenings. Manjit gill, is that your experience . We know i is that your experience . We know there are cultural and religious differences across the world and women living in desperate conditions and discriminated against in profound ways. What about here . Listening to molly, it is shocking that you are never told about your period, never had it explained when you were growing up. That would be to some years, extraordinary. That is the truth, to some years, extraordinary. That is the truth, we to some years, extraordinary. That is the truth, we have to some years, extraordinary. That is the truth, we have Sex Education in this is the truth, we have Sex Education in this country. Most of us leave the Education System not understanding our Menstrual Cycle, irls understanding our Menstrual Cycle, girls as understanding our Menstrual Cycle, girls as young as seven can start Bleeding Girls as young as seven can start bleeding every month for the next four decades of their lives and they have to four decades of their lives and they have to learn on the job. Things are changing have to learn on the job. Things are changing from when we first started. When changing from when we first started. When i changing from when we first started. When i first changing from when we first started. When i first started this organisation, it will be ten years next organisation, it will be ten years next year. Organisation, it will be ten years next year, what we found initially was in next year, what we found initially was in countries across africa, across was in countries across africa, across asia. Was in countries across africa, across asia, we were shocked when we found across asia, we were shocked when we found out across asia, we were shocked when we found out girls in the uk do not have found out girls in the uk do not have access to period products or cannot have access to period products or cannot afford them, and there is a missing cannot afford them, and there is a missing gap in education. Its the same missing gap in education. Its the same video missing gap in education. Its the same video in Sex Education, you close same video in Sex Education, you close your same video in Sex Education, you close your eyes and your ears and you think. Close your eyes and your ears and you think, 0k, close your eyes and your ears and you think, ok, that was explanation of you think, 0k, that was explanation of how you think, 0k, that was explanation of how our you think, ok, that was explanation of how our body works but they do not talk of how our body works but they do not talk about menstruation enough for us not talk about menstruation enough for us to not talk about menstruation enough for us to deal with it. Is not talk about menstruation enough for us to deal with it. Is it not talk about menstruation enough for us to deal with it. For us to deal with it. Is it to do with the fact for us to deal with it. Is it to do with the fact that for us to deal with it. Is it to do with the fact that there for us to deal with it. Is it to do with the fact that there are for us to deal with it. Is it to do with the fact that there are still that kind of shame . It is projected by some men, the stigma lurks. Is that. . We know about it in other countries, we see it, is conspicuously, is it right here right in the uk . It conspicuously, is it right here right in the uk . Conspicuously, is it right here riaht in the uk . ,. ,. , right in the uk . It is not only men, it is women right in the uk . It is not only men, it is women too. Right in the uk . It is not only men, it is women too. Some right in the uk . It is not only men, it is women too. Some will right in the uk . It is not only men, it is women too. Some will say right in the uk . It is not only men, it is women too. Some will say we | it is women too. Some will say we should it is women too. Some will say we should not it is women too. Some will say we should not talk about whispering the word period because they have not eradicated word period because they have not eradicated their own stigma and shame eradicated their own stigma and shame yet and that is the same for teachers shame yet and that is the same for teachers in shame yet and that is the same for teachers in schools. We have to train teachers in schools. We have to train teachers to eradicate their own stigma and shame around periods so that own stigma and shame around periods so that they own stigma and shame around periods so that they can deliver menstrual education so that they can deliver menstrual education and not pass on the stigma and shame education and not pass on the stigma and shame that they had all their lives and shame that they had all their lives. ~. , , lives. Which is why it is so good and important lives. Which is why it is so good and important to lives. Which is why it is so good and important to have lives. Which is why it is so good and important to have this and important to have this conversation. Forthose and important to have this conversation. For those who do not understand, how bad can it period be . Haste understand, how bad can it period be . ~. Understand, how bad can it period be . ,. ,. ,. , be . We are hearing and seeing more and more peeple be . We are hearing and seeing more and more people coming be . We are hearing and seeing more and more people coming forward be . We are hearing and seeing more | and more people coming forward with extreme period pain, the fault of society and the way things are and not blaming one group of people, but doctors, it is part of being a woman. People with extra symptoms which could be a period but are so bad that they might not be, asking for explanation and being told, it is the joy of being a woman. When you look at the statistics and the studies. ,. ,. ,. , studies. Sorry to enter out, can ou studies. 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You go to the doctor and you tell them you cannot get out of bed and you are being set all the time and you cant keep any food down and you cant go to school or work, the pain is too bad, and the excuse we hear, myself growing up, on three different occasions, that is just the way it is, the joys of being a woman, that is what is said. Manjit gill, have you had that . You are being emotional, hysterical, is at your time of the month . Absolutely, we do not know not enough absolutely, we do not know not enough about menstruation as women and girls. Enough about menstruation as women and girls, but also as men. It takes up and girls, but also as men. It takes upto and girls, but also as men. It takes uptoten and girls, but also as men. It takes up to ten years to get diagnosed with a up to ten years to get diagnosed with a period disorder in this country with a period disorder in this country i with a period disorder in this country. I also remember hearing gps et country. I also remember hearing gps get 15 country. I also remember hearing gps get 15 minutes of training around menstruation. We have to know everything about your cycle before you go everything about your cycle before you go to everything about your cycle before you go to a gp and you have to have all that you go to a gp and you have to have all that data. You go to a gp and you have to have all that data, how many times you bleed. All that data, how many times you bleed. How all that data, how many times you bleed, how often, if it is painful, and period bleed, how often, if it is painful, and period pain is not supposed to stop you and period pain is not supposed to stop you living your day to day life. Stop you living your day to day life. And stop you living your day to day life. And if stop you living your day to day life, and if it is, theres something wrong and you need to it checked something wrong and you need to it checked. ,. ,. , ~ , checked. Here is a text, please keep m identi checked. Here is a text, please keep my identity anonymous, checked. Here is a text, please keep my identity anonymous, with checked. Here is a text, please keep| my identity anonymous, with regards to the topic today, my daughter who has just left Secondary School and they have stopped pupils going to they have stopped pupils going to the bathroom, another discussion for another time, the bathroom, another discussion for anothertime, i had to the bathroom, another discussion for another time, i had to go and see her gp to get a medical letter so she could get a toilet pass to go during lessons. This is not only at the school, it is happening all over. Can you imagine if you have just started your period as a young girl . This is traumatic never mind having to put your hand up in class to ask to go to the bathroom. Every day is a school day. What you make of that . It day is a school day. What you make of that . ,. ,. ,. , of that . It is not unheard of. I went through of that . It is not unheard of. I went through school of that . It is not unheard of. I went through school not of that . It is not unheard of. I | went through school not being of that . It is not unheard of. I went through school not being able to access the toilets and i know some of my teachers, it was very much, i need to go to the toilet, and it was usually the male teachers, the girls can go. As you said, this is a whole other discussion in itself, when you look at Period Dignity which is the term is thrown around so much across the uk, there is nothing dignified about not being able to have access to products, not having access to the toilet when you need it, and having toilet when you need it, and having to possibly sit in your own blood for what could be up to two hours at a time before you have a break during the school day. This a time before you have a break during the school day. A time before you have a break during the school day. This is what is so important during the school day. This is what is so important to during the school day. This is what is so important to hear. During the school day. This is what is so important to hear. Cathy during the school day. This is what is so important to hear. Cathy in l is so important to hear. Cathy in berwick upon tweed, khloe in cambridge, iam berwick upon tweed, khloe in cambridge, i am so pleased to hear from both of you. Thank you for getting in touch. As ever, you guys make this show. It is brilliant to have the experts here, do we take it seriously enough in this country . Menstruation . Periods . I seriously enough in this country . Menstruation . Periods . Menstruation . Periods . I have a difficult experience menstruation . Periods . I have a difficult experience anyway, menstruation . Periods . I have a difficult experience anyway, but| menstruation . Periods . I have a| difficult experience anyway, but i have spoken to my children about it since they were old enough to understand what happens. They are very lucky, my children go to a wonderful school, they are 12 years old and 14 years old, they are both boys, they have a great set of friends, and they are extremely sympathetic and knowledgeable about it, they are told about it, when i am struggling, i get sickness, i have days of work, and i struggle since i was 13 years old. Whenever they see it, they know, are you 0k . Do you need pain relief . They are sympathetic that we have a change in mood, it has helped him warned and make friendships with girls at school because they understand it and they dont shy away from it. That has come from the school as well. The school has a very positive attitude to teaching boys especially about periods. Hagar attitude to teaching boys especially about periods about periods. How does that compared about periods. How does that compared to about periods. How does that compared to when about periods. How does that compared to when you about periods. How does that compared to when you were i about periods. How does that i compared to when you were 13 . Horrible i used to be sick and faint with the pain. It took me a long time until i was about 30 to be diagnosed with the mdb. Matt the mdb. Very heavy bleeding. It affects you mentally as well and you have very severe pmt. Which is normal pmt which is bad enough, pmdb can be very severe. It can affect you for your whole life. Being diagnosed and getting support comes late in life in my experience. Watching people like my nieces and my godchildren going through it, i think it has not improved massively. But i think as well women, mums, dads, need to talk to their children and say if you are being sick or youre a struggling and you cannot get to school on your job, you need to get some help and sometimes you have to push at the doctor to be referred to consultant and once you get to see the consultant, things generally change quickly. But it is getting taken seriously at the gp and saying it is not because i am a teenager. I know this is heavy, when you know you have an excessively heavy period, you have other physical symptoms, and mental symptoms as well and they need to be addressed equally. I am need to be addressed equally. I am askin the need to be addressed equally. I am asking the questions that need to be asked, i may have asked these questions before in my own home and received answers. You mention pmt, premenstrual tension, what is that like . How does it feel . I premenstrual tension, what is that like . How does it feel . Like . How does it feel . I feel like the incredible like . How does it feel . I feel like the incredible hulk. Like . How does it feel . I feel like the incredible hulk. It like . How does it feel . I feel like the incredible hulk. It can the incredible hulk. It can affect me in different ways from being mild, Eating Ravenously the day before, to for two weeks, i would have two weeks of build up where i would be very angry, very emotional, and argumentative because everything felt very sensitive in terms of what people were saying. I felt very anxious about things as well. My worst point, when i was in my 20s and 30s, i would feel like i had maybe one or two weeks a month people would say was normal and the pain that i would have was excessive. I have had two children, i went into labour, the contractions were just like period i went into labour, the contractions werejust like period pain to me. And that is when i realised that it was not normal. People said to me thatis was not normal. People said to me that is not normal. Im really hopeful that things have changed, things are moving, and more awareness makes young women more able to be more comfortable to say to people even to the french are boys, i am really feeling awful today. Ifeel very upset. I am going today. Ifeel very upset. I am going to be more sensitive than any other time. 0k, fine, they will start to recognise it. If time. Ok, fine, they will start to recognise it time. 0k, fine, they will start to recognise it recognise it. If you are on a period. Recognise it. If you are on a period. The recognise it. If you are on a period, the worse recognise it. If you are on a period, the worse thing recognise it. If you are on a period, the worse thing is, | recognise it. If you are on a. Period, the worse thing is, you know, ive done in the past, and weve all done it, i know, it is part of the learning thing, if you are a bit tense and a bit shouted and i are you your period . That is the worst thing and i are you your period . That is the worst thing it and i are you your period . That is the worst thing it is and i are you your period . That is the worst thing it is the and i are you your period . That is the worst thing it is the worst. The worst thing it is the worst thing when people say that when youre not, because it totally makes youre not, because it totally makes you feel unjustified in having a reaction, actually, may be quite justified. I get that a lot. My husband knew from very early or not to say that. 50 husband knew from very early or not to say that to say that. So did i. Believe you me. In to say that. So did i. Believe you me in the to say that. So did i. Believe you me. In the past, to say that. So did i. Believe you me. In the past, it to say that. So did i. Believe you me. In the past, it slips to say that. So did i. Believe you me. In the past, it slips out, to say that. So did i. Believe you me. In the past, it slips out, i i me. In the past, it slips out, i want to apologise on behalf of the males of the nation. Welcome, cathy. I started my period at 12, i was not diagnosed i started my period at 12, i was not diagnosed with ngo mix uses until i was 30 diagnosed with ngo mix uses until i was 30. From 12 until 30 two weeks out of was 30. From 12 until 30 two weeks out of every was 30. From 12 until 30 two weeks out of every month, half of every month, out of every month, half of every month, i out of every month, half of every month, i was not well and the lead up month, i was not well and the lead up to month, i was not well and the lead up to the month, i was not well and the lead up to the period, at lasted a week, and then up to the period, at lasted a week, and then there was the recovering afterwards. I had heavy bleeding which afterwards. I had heavy bleeding which i afterwards. I had heavy bleeding which i no afterwards. I had heavy bleeding which i no longer referred to heavy bleeding. Which i no longer referred to heavy bleeding, it was haemorrhaging, in terms bleeding, it was haemorrhaging, in terms of bleeding, it was haemorrhaging, in terms of the period products, i ended terms of the period products, i ended up terms of the period products, i ended up using the highest level super ended up using the highest level super plus tampons plus period pads and that super plus tampons plus period pads and that was not enough and there was excess and that was not enough and there was excess bleeding. I had pain, back was excess bleeding. I had pain, back pain, was excess bleeding. I had pain, back pain, vomiting. I had premenstrual tension. That led to depression because it was so awful. During depression because it was so awful. During the depression because it was so awful. During the school time, i under achieved during the school time, i under achieved because i was not well half of the achieved because i was not well half of the time. In sixth form i had 100 days of of the time. In sixth form i had 100 days of sick of the time. In sixth form i had 100 days of sick. They thought i was being days of sick. They thought i was being hysterical because i couldnt talk about being hysterical because i couldnt talk about it even though i was in etoro talk about it even though i was in etoro school and a Grammar School which etoro school and a Grammar School which really etoro school and a Grammar School which really wanted us all to achieve which really wanted us all to achieve. A girls school. There was achieve. A girls school. There was no achieve. A girls school. There was no conversation about how we were was no conversation about how we were coping with our periods. They were were coping with our periods. They were all were coping with our periods. They were all girls, but the girls who had ordinary periods were the least tolerant had ordinary periods were the least tolerant because they thought one was being hysterical. 100 days of sick, was being hysterical. 100 days of sick, under was being hysterical. 100 days of sick, underachieved in my was being hysterical. 100 days of sick, under achieved in my a levels, managed sick, under achieved in my a levels, managed to sick, under achieved in my a levels, managed to get to university, Underachieved At University for the same Underachieved At University for the same reason, got into a career, and that carried same reason, got into a career, and that carried on through my 20s, i ot that carried on through my 20s, i got very that carried on through my 20s, i got very sick, i went to the doctor, all through got very sick, i went to the doctor, all through my teens and 20s, they could all through my teens and 20s, they could not all through my teens and 20s, they could not diagnose it, they gave me increasingly strong drugs for the pain increasingly strong drugs for the pain not increasingly strong drugs for the pain. Not diagnosing the illness. Even pain. Not diagnosing the illness. Even strong painkillers werent enough even strong painkillers werent enough and i went to a conference on endometriosis, after i had been diagnosed about endometriosis, full of women, diagnosed about endometriosis, full of women, the panel was turned doctors of women, the panel was turned doctors and consultants, and i think one or doctors and consultants, and i think one or two doctors and consultants, and i think one or two of them were women and we came to one or two of them were women and we came to the one or two of them were women and we came to the conclusion that that was one of came to the conclusion that that was one of the came to the conclusion that that was one of the failings and the reason why endometriosis was not being diagnosed. 40 years later, i do not think diagnosed. 40 years later, i do not think medical development, although there was think medical development, although there was something in the news yesterday there was something in the news yesterday about potential understanding of endometriosis, 30, 40 years understanding of endometriosis, 30, 40 years later, i do not think we have 40 years later, i do not think we have moved on and i think there is a huge have moved on and i think there is a huge taboo have moved on and i think there is a huge taboo around periods. Because it is to huge taboo around periods. Because it is to do huge taboo around periods. Because it is to do with the patriarchal society, it is to do with the patriarchal society, it is to do with the patriarchal society, i am it is to do with the patriarchal society, lam really it is to do with the patriarchal society, i am really impressed that spain society, i am really impressed that spain has society, i am really impressed that spain has moved forward because they are way spain has moved forward because they are way behind on feminism in a lot of ways, are way behind on feminism in a lot of ways, but are way behind on feminism in a lot of ways, but they have now included period of ways, but they have now included period leave its brilliant. 0ne of ways, but they have now included period leave its brilliant. One of my most period leave its brilliant. One of my most important points i would like to my most important points i would like to make is that i felt when i had endometriosis that i was disabled because i was ill half of the month and couldnt go to work. I had to the month and couldnt go to work. I had to work the month and couldnt go to work. I had to work around it. I think endometriosis and other severe menstrual disorders should be recognised as disability so that reasonable adjustments can be made at work reasonable adjustments can be made at work. Thats my summary so far. That at work. Thats my summary so far. That is at work. Thats my summary so far. That is so at work. Thats my summary so far. That is so interesting. The fact that you said there were 11 doctors and consultants one of whom was a woman. Thats oh so much, doesnt it . Annie in birmingham, good morning. It . Annie in birmingham, good mornint. It . Annie in birmingham, good mornin. ,. , it . Annie in birmingham, good mornint. , � morning. Good morning. Im calling from birmingham. Morning. Good morning. Im calling from birmingham. The morning. Good morning. Im calling from birmingham. The topic morning. Good morning. Im calling from birmingham. The topic today i morning. Good morning. Im calling| from birmingham. The topic today is very interesting and important. Generally for young adult girls who are stepping into adulthood. Its something, period is something we dont talk much about. It is still taboo generally. Talking about it at work, at school, i sympathise, taboo generally. Talking about it at work, at school, isympathise, my daughter, she got into that period, she didnt have that much support at school, and it was very embarrassing, i educated her, and we talk about one day it is going to happen to you, but the support she got from her peers, the teacher could not come forward and she got told off in front of everyone. Thats awful told off in front of everyone. Thats awful yes, it was really bad. It thats awful yes, it was really bad it was thats awful yes, it was really bad. It was really thats awful yes, it was really bad. It was really awful thats awful yes, it was really bad. It was really awful experience. I had to be called from home. I had to go and pick her up at school because literally she couldnt get out of the toilet. This topic is very important to educate and to be inclusive support between Boys And Girls to talk about, you know, girls are going to experience that situation in their lifetime. And the should not be something where you need to feel embarrassed, like youve done something wrong. I support the lady who came before me, she was talking about workplaces. Everybody has a different experience. Some people can have much more painful periods and some people dont. Tell] much more painful periods and some people dont people dont. Tell me about your dau~hter, people dont. Tell me about your daughter. How people dont. Tell me about your daughter, how did people dont. Tell me about your daughter, how did that people dont. Tell me about your daughter, how did that affect people dont. Tell me about your i daughter, how did that affect her . How did she feel that that happened a few it how did she feel that that happened a fe. How did she feel that that happened a fe. , ,. , a few it was terrible. Literally, i had to calm a few it was terrible. Literally, i had to calm her a few it was terrible. Literally, i had to calm her down, a few it was terrible. Literally, i had to calm her down, to a few it was terrible. Literally, i i had to calm her down, to explain a few it was terrible. Literally, i had to calm her down, to explain to her, she did something wrong is how she felt, she didnt want to go back to school. Ijust had to find a way where i explain to her, you know, maybe it was just a lack of knowledge and a lack of education or preparation for the school itself rather than the whole class. That was not a good experience for her. . This is such an important call. Brilliant stuff, but you, annie, have crystallised an issue that is coming in on the text, still at schools now, access to toilets, going to the toilet, when you are having your period. I would like to bring manjit gill back on this one, speak to annie about this, speak to all of us about this. Shocking it all of us about this. Shocking it is the reality, in order to deliver any type is the reality, in order to deliver any type of is the reality, in order to deliver any type of education, you have got to be any type of education, you have got to be able any type of education, you have got to be able to deliver it so the person to be able to deliver it so the person receiving the education does not get person receiving the education does not get hang ups, isnt misinformed. The problem not get hang ups, isnt misinformed. The problem we have in schools still. The problem we have in schools still. Is the problem we have in schools still. Is the the problem we have in schools still, is the teachers have their own still, is the teachers have their own shame, they havent been taught how to own shame, they havent been taught how to handle the shame that they have but how to handle the shame that they have but also to make sure they do not pass have but also to make sure they do not pass it have but also to make sure they do not pass it on to, the word period poverty. Not pass it on to, the word period poverty, poverty around periods, it adds further stigma to the conversation so we do not use it. We do not conversation so we do not use it. We do not use conversation so we do not use it. We do not use the word sanitary because sanitary do not use the word sanitary because sanitary suggest periods are dirty, we dont sanitary suggest periods are dirty, we dont use the word hygiene. Language we dont use the word hygiene. Language is really important. There are so language is really important. There are so many language is really important. There are so many facets to menstruation, it is not are so many facets to menstruation, it is not only are so many facets to menstruation, it is not only that is that you are bleeding. It is not only that is that you are bleeding, it is the rest of the month. Bleeding, it is the rest of the month, the cycle, we should know where month, the cycle, we should know where we month, the cycle, we should know where we are in our cycle so we can live the where we are in our cycle so we can live the best where we are in our cycle so we can live the best of our lives. The food that we live the best of our lives. The food that we eat. Live the best of our lives. The food that we eat, the products that are available. That we eat, the products that are available, sometimes, youll find that some available, sometimes, youll find that some girls will start on one type of that some girls will start on one type of product and will use it for the rest type of product and will use it for the rest of type of product and will use it for the rest of their lives, whereas in order the rest of their lives, whereas in order to the rest of their lives, whereas in order to have a period that is managed order to have a period that is managed well, there is a selection of products you can use. When we first started, we were told that one of the first started, we were told that one of the biggest problems that women tell them of the biggest problems that women tell them that they have is the use the wrong tell them that they have is the use the wrong tampon in their cycle. They the wrong tampon in their cycle. They might buy a pack of tampons, and will they might buy a pack of tampons, and will use they might buy a pack of tampons, and will use the same one every day when and will use the same one every day when in and will use the same one every day when in fact. And will use the same one every day when in fact, when it is not a heavy day. When in fact, when it is not a heavy day. You when in fact, when it is not a heavy day, you need to use a different type day, you need to use a different type of day, you need to use a different type of product. So many things that add to type of product. So many things that add to the type of product. So many things that add to the problems we go through. The same add to the problems we go through. The same as doctors, they are not aware. The same as doctors, they are not aware. They the same as doctors, they are not aware, they have not been taught and they havent aware, they have not been taught and they havent been trained. . Also also. They havent been trained. . Also also, people bring their own shame and attitudes of stigmatising. I am going to come to some takes in some second. We have some breaking news, officials in the Us State Of Hawaii now say 36 people have been killed by wildfires on the island, more than 200 buildings on the island including much of the Historic Town on the island have been destroyed. 36 People Killed by wildfires in hawaii. More on this on the bbc news website and throughout the day and of course on radio 5 live on bbc sounds. We are talking about attitudes to menstruation and i have got some great people to do that. Some great takes, toilet breaks at school, as i said. A major issue. Teachers stopping children going to the toilet during lessons. It is awful for young the toilet during lessons. It is awfulfor young girls the toilet during lessons. It is awful for young girls experiencing this. And this one, remaining anonymous, thats fine, i have taught in england for 12 years at four different schools, i am a science teacher, and each school we have taught reproduction in year seven, lessons on puberty, it is part of the national curriculum, the Menstrual Cycle as part of the gcse curriculum, hormones, typing is of the Menstrual Cycle, every gcse student i have taught over 12 years, we teach this rigorously. Its to be hoped that is applied ubiquitously but one wonders. Please keep my identity anonymous, with regards to the topic today, my daughter has just left Secondary School and they have stopped pupils going to the bathroom. And another one saying that. This one, my work involves me going to different businesses every day and i have been really impressed in the last year that so many of the toilets, whether they are womens or gender neutral, have baskets of sanitary products for emergency situations. Its not just poverty this provides for, sometimes you are caught by surprise. In the past this means frantically rolling up toilet roll to put into your underwear and forever checking your chair when you stand up just forever checking your chair when you stand upjust in case. Now businesses seem to be taking it seriously and it makes such a difference. Everyone has experienced this panic. I actually feel a bit emotional writing this because i have never spoken about it. And that for me says it all. I am 42 but i really do feel that change is happening. Jen in newcastle, i cannot thank you enough for that text, talking about it for the first time. For many people, that will resonate, listening and watching. You have done a huge favour by sending it into us. The question youre asking this morning, in the uk right here and now, 2023, do we take periods seriously . More to come. 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And we too obsessed with our phones. How hot for the planet to get . And we hot for the planet to get . And we will explain hot for the planet to get . And we will explain how hot for the planet to get . And we will explain how prices hot for the planet to get . And we will explain how prices keep hot for the planet to get . And we | will explain how prices keep going up will explain how prices keep going up and up. Stand will explain how prices keep going u and u. , will explain how prices keep going u andu. � will explain how prices keep going u and u. , will explain how prices keep going unandu. Up and up. And space has its own smell. Up and up. And space has its own smell what up and up. And space has its own smell. What of . Up and up. And space has its own smell. What of . The up and up. And space has its own smell. What of . The world up and up. And space has its own smell. What of . The world is up and up. And space has its own smell. What of . The world is fast movin smell. What of . The world is fast moving and smell. What of . The world is fast moving and can smell. What of . The world is fast moving and can be smell. What of . The world is fast moving and can be confusing. Smell. What of . The world is fast moving and can be confusing. So| moving and can be confusing. So lets moving and can be confusing. So lets talk moving and can be confusing. So lets talk about it. Thank you so much for getting in touch. We are asking the question, do we take periods seriously in this country . At ten oclock, join us for this one. A very important political debate. There have been called this morning, doctor helen pankhurst, the great granddaughter of emmeline pam pankhurst, the suffragette, saying its time the rest of the uk followed scotland boss might lead and made sure 16 and 17 year olds were able to vote. Why not . 08085 909693, 85058. Thats coming up at ten oclock. Molly fenton is still with us, ivy in suffolk, sarah in glasgow and best, not her real name, in shropshire, all coming up. Doctor, you are listening. Amazing calls and messages. It will come as absolutely no surprise to you as the author of the knowledge, your guide to female health from menstruation to the menopause. Always good to have your wise words on the programme. It says so much, what we have heard so far. , and i think manjit gill hit the nail on the head when she said the terminology is wrapped in so much shame, sanitary, the idea you are clean, the idea you might be dirty. This is a basic human thing for women and girls from the age of ten onwards. 0n women and girls from the age of ten onwards. On a monthly cycle. It is normal female biology, onwards. On a monthly cycle. It is normalfemale biology, it happens up until the age of maybe 52. The majority of women and girls� lives is dictated by this cyclical biological change of having a monthly bleed. However, it affects different women and girls differently. Sometimes you can get pain, sometimes heaviness, sometimes there� s an underlying reason for that. But it seems we don� t have the lexicon the conversations around it, and getting men part of it, because they should definitely be part of it, dad� s, employees, employers, and drxand it, dad� s, employees, employers, and dr xand governments will stop if the woman is well, the household is well stop if the household is well the economy thrives. Is stop if the household is well the economy thrives. Stop if the household is well the economy thrives. Is this down to misogyny. Economy thrives. Is this down to misogyny. Much economy thrives. Is this down to misogyny, much of economy thrives. Is this down to misogyny, much of this . Economy thrives. Is this down to misogyny, much of this . I economy thrives. Is this down to misogyny, much of this . I think| economy thrives. Is this down to i misogyny, much of this . I think it is, misogyny, much of this . Ithink it is, unfortunately. Misogyny, much of this . I think it is, unfortunately. Its misogyny, much of this . I think it is, unfortunately. Its down misogyny, much of this . I think it is, unfortunately. Its down to is, unfortunately. It� s down to patriarchy and also sometimes down to internalised misogyny. I say that women will downplay other women� s symptoms by saying, i don� t have it that bad, so why are you complaining . Be quiet about it. In my culture there is a whole concept about things being under the rail because it is seen as more respectful. There is a phrase translated from punjabi. It can perpetuate stigma and taboo further. It also means that things are not learnt. The knowledge of managing heavy periods or getting help early enough or having a condition like endometriosisjust enough or having a condition like endometriosis just doesn� t happen. We can speak to beth in shropshire, not her real name, just to remind beth that she is best 0n not her real name, just to remind beth that she is best on this issue of misogyny and attitudes, what would you like to say . I am would you like to say . I am currently would you like to say . I am currently on would you like to say . I am currently on sick would you like to say . I am currently on sick leave, would you like to say . I am j currently on sick leave, this would you like to say . I am i currently on sick leave, this is would you like to say . I am currently on sick leave, this is my third currently on sick leave, this is my third week currently on sick leave, this is my third week now. I have never had any long standing menstrual issues. I have long standing menstrual issues. I have had long standing menstrual issues. I have had children. But i changed contraception. It came to the end of the term contraception. It came to the end of the term of contraception. It came to the end of the term of the current one i am on. My doctor the term of the current one i am on. My doctor and the nhs have been outstanding, i cant knock them, but telling outstanding, i cant knock them, but telling my outstanding, i cant knock them, but telling my workplace was the hardest thin telling my workplace was the hardest thing i telling my workplace was the hardest thing i have ever had to do. It is the question that come with it, why, what you the question that come with it, why, what you mean, a period . Obviously it is very what you mean, a period . Obviously it is very natural but it is an embarrassing topic. I work in a very male dominated industry so having the conversation with a gentleman, i dont the conversation with a gentleman, i dont want the conversation with a gentleman, i dont want to say its uncomfortable on my dont want to say its uncomfortable on my behalf, but more on their behalf. On my behalf, but more on their behalf. If on my behalf, but more on their behalf, if that makes sense. Obviously if you want to self certify obviously if you want to self certify for periods for a couple of days certify for periods for a couple of days then certify for periods for a couple of days then you dont get any sick pay for your days then you dont get any sick pay for your first days then you dont get any sick pay for your first week, i think it is, with for your first week, i think it is, with your for your first week, i think it is, with your first week, which is how lon with your first week, which is how long a with your first week, which is how long a normal period lasts. Women have time long a normal period lasts. Women have time off for babies, but now they have have time off for babies, but now they have time off for periods, thats they have time off for periods, thats the they have time off for periods, thats the sexist attitude i come up with in thats the sexist attitude i come up with in the thats the sexist attitude i come up with in the workplace. The}r thats the sexist attitude i come up with in the workplace. With in the workplace. They must have sisters with in the workplace. They must have sisters and with in the workplace. They must have sisters and mothers with in the workplace. They must have sisters and mothers will. With in the workplace. They mustl have sisters and mothers will stop what� s going on . You have sisters and mothers will stop whats going on . Whats going on . You would think that, but whats going on . You would think that. But they whats going on . You would think that, but they ask, whats going on . You would think that, but they ask, why whats going on . You would think that, but they ask, why would whats going on . You would think that, but they ask, why would a l that, but they ask, why would a woman that, but they ask, why would a woman want a week off every month because woman want a week off every month because of woman want a week off every month because of something she naturally. Oes because of something she naturally goes through her whole life. I have been goes through her whole life. I have been very goes through her whole life. I have been very lucky in my lifetime that i been very lucky in my lifetime that i have been very lucky in my lifetime that i have never had time off until recently i have never had time off until recently but i know women in the workplace recently but i know women in the workplace that do suffer horrendously and its that when you come horrendously and its that when you come Back Horrendously and its that when you come back from the toilet, has anyone come back from the toilet, has anyone got anything . Can i have a tampon . Anyone got anything . Can i have a tampon . Its an awkward and embarrassing situation for women. You going embarrassing situation for women. You going to public toilets and there you going to public toilets and there is you going to public toilets and there is contraception readily available to get your hands on but getting available to get your hands on but getting hold of a sanitary product is a totally different ball game. Let me is a totally different ball game. Let me bring sarah in, in glasgow, not her real name, on that point. Hello. ,. , not her real name, on that point. Hello. Find. Not her real name, on that point. Hello. Find. And i not her real name, on that point. I hello. Find. And you hello. How are you . Find. And you are originally hello. How are you . Find. And you are originally from hello. How are you . Find. And you are originally from brazil. Hello. How are you . Find. And you are originally from brazil. What hello. How are you . Find. And you are originally from brazil. What do | are originally from brazil. What do you think about attitudes in britain . I you think about attitudes in britain . You think about attitudes in britain . , , , britain . I am surprised with these calls. I britain . I am surprised with these calls l have britain . I am surprised with these calls l have a britain . I am surprised with these calls. I have a daughter britain . I am surprised with these calls. I have a daughter who britain . I am surprised with these calls. I have a daughter who is calls. I have a daughter who is almost nine. I� m getting worried about her, honestly. I really sense this secrecy about periods and sexuality which is way more open in brazil. I got my period when i was really young, i was ten, and i got a lot of help from grown ups and teachers and people around me who were really kind. I got a lot of support in sexual classes and everything, but we got the message across. I sense that children don� t have any of this around here. I don� t know how i would have dealt with my own issues without the support i had. Yeah, that� s a worry. Why is that . Different kinds of societies, maybe family. Family is very strong in brazil, isn� t it . I very strong in brazil, isnt it . I think it is. But it was friends who were also really strong. Extended famil as were also really strong. Extended family as well were also really strong. Extended family as well is were also really strong. Extended family as well is a were also really strong. Extended family as well is a very were also really strong. Extended family as well is a very firm were also really strong. Extended family as well is a very firm and i family as well is a very firm and strong structure. Maybe i� m talking through my backside, i don� t know. I through my backside, i dont know. I think so, but there is only so much family can do because when you go around with your friends and peers, it gets taboo, you don� t want to talk about that if you feel you are not a face. Then it becomes a problem. It is so hard to be a woman in this world. If you can� t talk about simple issues like having a period with your own friends, that would be so hard on her. So period with your own friends, that would be so hard on her. Period with your own friends, that would be so hard on her. So hard to be a woman would be so hard on her. So hard to be a woman in would be so hard on her. So hard to be a woman in this would be so hard on her. So hard to be a woman in this world. Would be so hard on her. So hard to be a woman in this world. It would be so hard on her. So hard to be a woman in this world. It is would be so hard on her. So hard to be a woman in this world. It is so i be a woman in this world. It is so difficult. Be a woman in this world. It is so difficult we be a woman in this world. It is so difficult. We face be a woman in this world. It is so difficult. We face so be a woman in this world. It is so difficult. We face so many be a woman in this world. It is so | difficult. We face so many battles on a daily basis, everything is a struggle. And, on, if we can� t talk about our own periods, how will that work . �. About our own periods, how will that work . � , , about our own periods, how will that work . � ,. , about our own periods, how will that work . � ,. ~ | work . Best, come back in here . I completely work . Best, come back in here . I completely agree. Work . Best, come back in here . I completely agree. Sexuality work . Best, come back in here . I completely agree. Sexuality and i completely agree. Sexuality and periods completely agree. Sexuality and periods and things, is a british person periods and things, is a british person 80 periods and things, is a british person 80 is a very Taboo Subject to talk about person 80 is a very Taboo Subject to talk about. Its the giggling and you see talk about. Its the giggling and you see it talk about. Its the giggling and you see it quite regular. I have a daughter you see it quite regular. I have a daughter who was a teenager and she is coming daughter who was a teenager and she is coming to daughter who was a teenager and she is coming to puberty. Im very, very open is coming to puberty. Im very, very open in is coming to puberty. Im very, very open in that is coming to puberty. Im very, very open in that aspect stop but i know a lot of open in that aspect stop but i know a lot of people who wouldnt be because a lot of people who wouldnt be because it is seen as a Taboo Subject because it is seen as a Taboo Subject. As awful as it sounds, thats subject. As awful as it sounds, thats an subject. As awful as it sounds, thats an ignorance on our behalf. It thats an ignorance on our behalf. It isnt thats an ignorance on our behalf. It isnt something you talk about openly. It isnt something you talk about openly, ratherthan it isnt something you talk about openly, rather than not openly, if that makes openly, rather than not openly, if that makes sense. Openly, rather than not openly, if that makes sense. What was it like for ou that makes sense. What was it like for you when that makes sense. What was it like for you when you that makes sense. What was it like for you when you were. That makes sense. What was it like for you when you were. As that makes sense. What was it like for you when you were. As sarah | for you when you were. As sarah said, she was 11, when you were 11, 12, 13, what was it like for you . In a School Setting i wouldnt have said a a School Setting i wouldnt have said a word to a teacher or friend or anything said a word to a teacher or friend or anything like that. My parents were or anything like that. My parents were always really open in all aspects were always really open in all aspects of life. I am completely the samei aspects of life. I am completely the same. It aspects of life. I am completely the same. It is aspects of life. I am completely the same, it is howl aspects of life. I am completely the same, it is how i have been brought up. Same, it is how i have been brought up but same, it is how i have been brought up but i same, it is how i have been brought up but i can same, it is how i have been brought up. But i can make comments to friends up. But i can make comments to friends and up. But i can make comments to friends and people in the workplace, i friends and people in the workplace, iwouldnt friends and people in the workplace, i wouldnt think twice about handing over a i wouldnt think twice about handing over a sanitary product in public, but i over a sanitary product in public, but i know over a sanitary product in public, but i know there are a lot of people who would but i know there are a lot of people who would rather use toilet roll and not say who would rather use toilet roll and not say a who would rather use toilet roll and not say a word and keep it to themselves and openly talk about it with it themselves and openly talk about it with it being such a Taboo Subject. I with it being such a Taboo Subject. I find with it being such a Taboo Subject. I find that with it being such a Taboo Subject. I find that so alien. And in school mostly, that you can� t have a proper or sincere conversation with a teacher, oranotherwoman. I� m teacher, or another woman. I� m having teacher, oranotherwoman. I� m having a period, help me out. It� s not something we can relate. Essen not something we can relate. Even if it was a male . Not something we can relate. Even if it was a male . To not something we can relate. Even if it was a male . To approach and say. If it was a male . To approach and say. I if it was a male . To approach and say. I need if it was a male . To approach and say, i need help, and not feel embarrassed. To be part of it. My embarrassed. To be part of it. Daughter will embarrassed. To be part of it. Iji daughter will know embarrassed. To be part of it. Til daughter will know because embarrassed. To be part of it. Ij� ii daughter will know because i embarrassed. To be part of it. Ii1 daughter will know because i talk to her about these issues. But i feel she is insecure about a lot of stuff that i wasn� t when i was her age. Exactly. I know there� s a lot of. Exactly. I know theres a lot of. My childs exactly. I know theres a lot of. My Childs School has unisex toilets now. My Childs School has unisex toilets now. There my Childs School has unisex toilets now, there is no girls and boys. Is that why now, there is no girls and boys. Is that why they dont have tampons readily that why they dont have tampons readily available . Is it something that men readily available . Is it something that men are embarrassed about . I think that men are embarrassed about . I think being that men are embarrassed about . I think being a female and having a conversation with a gentleman about her period conversation with a gentleman about her period is a lot more embarrassing on their behalf than it would embarrassing on their behalf than it would be embarrassing on their behalf than it would be on my end, if that makes sense would be on my end, if that makes sense. � ,. , � , sense. But it shouldnt be. It is only natural. Sense. But it shouldnt be. It is only natural. It sense. But it shouldnt be. 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You have beth. Leslie, good morning. Good morning. You have heard beth. Leslie, good morning. Good morning. You have heard from i beth. Leslie, good morning. Good i morning. You have heard from sarah and beth. Morning. You have heard from sarah and beth we morning. You have heard from sarah and beth. We want morning. You have heard from sarah and beth. We want to morning. You have heard from sarah and beth. We want to hear morning. You have heard from sarah and beth. We want to hear from morning. You have heard from sarah| and beth. We want to hear from you, leslie. What would you like to say . I had a female member of staff suffering i had a female member of staff suffering with i had a female member of staff suffering with a i had a female member of staff suffering with a period. I had a female member of staff suffering with a period. She i had a female member of staffi suffering with a period. She had i had a female member of staff suffering with a period. 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I have been listening to what everyone has said and i had similar experiences, i had terrible, horrible periods when i was young, i had to go home from school, i had to go to the office in school and lie down because i was in terrible pain, vomiting, and i would miss days off work when i got older. When i was young i was given ibuprofen and other painkillers but there is this idea that one day when i got pregnant and had a baby i would get better. So there was this feeling that eventually i would grow out of it. And i never did, actually. I would go right into my 40s with painful periods and wasn� t diagnosed with endometriosis until after i had a hysterectomy. The other thing i wanted to say, after i had the hysterectomy and went straight into the menopause, i had a lot of problems afterwards and nobody knew what was going on. What was going on. Inaudible we are just what was going on. Inaudible we are just losing what was going on. Inaudible we are just losing the what was going on. 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But i was diagnosed with endometriosis after having my baby. I will endometriosis after having my baby. I will put endometriosis after having my baby. I will put a endometriosis after having my baby. I will put a question to the good doctor, nighat arif. Martin, stoke on trent, good morning. You are a grandfather. Speak to the doctor about what you need to know and what all men need to know. Over to you, martin and the doctor. Goad to you, martin and the doctor. Good mornint. To you, martin and the doctor. Good morning my to you, martin and the doctor. Good morning. My granddaughter is having her first morning. My granddaughter is having her first period morning. My granddaughter is having herfirst period. I morning. My granddaughter is having her first period. I know morning. My granddaughter is having her first period. I know nothing her first period. I know nothing about her first period. I know nothing about periods her first period. 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They can discuss her periods coming up but they can discuss her periods coming up but she they can discuss her periods coming up. But she didnt they can discuss her periods coming up. But she didnt take they can discuss her periods coming up. But she didnt take too they can discuss her periods coming up. But she didnt take too kindly. Up. But she didnt take too kindly to that up. But she didnt take too kindly to that and up. But she didnt take too kindly to that and snubbed up. But she didnt take too kindly to that and snubbed it. Up. But she didnt take too kindly to that and snubbed it. So up. But she didnt take too kindly to that and snubbed it. So im to that and snubbed it. So im really to that and snubbed it. So im reallyjust to that and snubbed it. So im reallyjust looking to that and snubbed it. So im reallyjust looking for to that and snubbed it. So im reallyjust looking for extra i to that and snubbed it. So im i reallyjust looking for extra help. Martin. Reallyjust looking for extra help. Martin. Its reallyjust looking for extra help. Martin. Its so reallyjust looking for extra help. Martin, its so lovely reallyjust looking for extra help. Martin, its so lovely for reallyjust looking for extra help. Martin, its so lovely for a reallyjust looking for extra help. I martin, its so lovely for a grandad martin, it� s so lovely for a grandad to be so proactive. The first question about having a bath every day. It defends how she feels in herself. It depends. She day. It defends how she feels in herself. It depends. She doesnt reall like herself. It depends. She doesnt really like a herself. It depends. She doesnt really like a bath herself. It depends. She doesnt really like a bath at herself. It depends. She doesnt really like a bath at all, herself. It depends. She doesnt really like a bath at all, to herself. It depends. She doesnt really like a bath at all, to be really like a bath at all, to be honest really like a bath at all, to be honest i really like a bath at all, to be honest. , ,. ,. , honest. I would encourage her to have a shower. Honest. I would encourage her to have a shower. Use honest. I would encourage her to have a shower. Use clear honest. I would encourage her to have a shower. Use clear water i have a shower. Use clear water around the genitals to clean yourself but she doesn� t need to use any water inside. She can just use clear water, any water inside. She can just use clearwater, no any water inside. She can just use clear water, no soap, any water inside. She can just use clearwater, no soap, no any water inside. She can just use clear water, no soap, no perfume, any water inside. She can just use clearwater, no soap, no perfume, it doesn� t need to smell like a rose or anything like that because the vagina and vulva are self cleaning. Sheesh she does not need to use the flowerjet sheesh she does not need to use the flower jet stream sheesh she does not need to use the flowerjet stream inside because that will ruin the friendly bacteria around the vagina which can be very helpful. You don� t need to get her to sit in the bath, just have a shower with Running Water and clean herself. The other thing is to change her sanitary and period products regularly. If she is using pads then teach her about wings on the pads as well, meaning she is not likely to get leaking. On tampons, it is good you got her to see a nurse because they can talk about different tampons for different flows. A period can last up to ten days but that isn� t for every single girl. In the first three or four days it can be heavy and they can clot. That is normal. The reason is because the lining of the womb is coming away. She might get pain or cramps but it� s important to keep an eye on that. Pain is not normal. If she is getting a slight cramp then that can be, using paracetamol and ibuprofen over the counter should be all right, but if it is not managed then that� s another instigator to go to the doctor. The other thing your granddaughter might notice is that she feels a lot of craving for food and her mood fluctuates. The reason for the mood fluctuating is because of oestrogen and progesterone. Not everyone gets premenstrual tension, or premenstrual dysphoric disorder, but you need to look out for signs of extreme anger, irritability, clumsiness, she might drop things or become forgetful, brain fog. Some women and girls experience shoulder, hip, breast or tummy pain. That is all normal, because of another bodily chemical. Some will vomit, but that is an extreme symptom. Lots of tlc. Chocolate is great if she likes chocolate and sweet stuff, because we have a craving for carbohydrates and sugar in moderation. Hydration is important, and regular changing of sanitary products. I would say to keep the conversation going, talk with her and ask what she wants, always. Thank you very much. And ask what she wants, always. Thank you very much. Thank you, doctor, thank you very much. Thank you, doctor. That thank you very much. Thank you, doctor, that was thank you very much. Thank you, doctor, that was comprehensive i thank you very much. Thank you, i doctor, that was comprehensive and necessary and important. And it was vital. I� m dipping into my thesaurus, but you know what i mean, it was great. It was so useful to people. Thank you, martin. It was good that you ask that one. Some breaking news, the number of people in england waiting to start routine hospital treatments has risen to a new record high. Nhs england says an estimated 7. 6 Million People were waiting to start treatment at the end ofjune, up from 7. 5 million in may, the highest number since records began in august 2007. More than 380,000 people in england have been waiting more than 52 weeks to start routine hospital treatment at the end ofjune, down slightly on the end ofjune, down slightly on the previous month. The government and nhs england have set the ambition of ending all waiting times of more than a year by march of 2025. The top line, the number of people in england waiting to start hospital treatments has risen to a record high. An estimated 7. 6 million are waiting to start treatment as of the end ofjune. More on the bbc news website and throughout the day on 5 live and on bbc sounds. Good morning, abi. Goad bbc sounds. Good morning, abi. Good mornint. Bbc sounds. Good morning, abi. Good morning what bbc sounds. Good morning, abi. Good morning. What would bbc sounds. Good morning, abi. Good morning. What would you bbc sounds. Good morning, abi. Good morning. What would you like bbc sounds. Good morning, abi. Good morning. What would you like to bbc sounds. Good morning, abi. Good morning. What would you like to say . | morning. What would you like to say . I ust morning. What would you like to say . Ljust wanted morning. What would you like to say . Ljust wanted to morning. What would you like to say . I just wanted to say morning. What would you like to say . I just wanted to say that morning. What would you like to say . I just wanted to say that its morning. What would you like to say . I just wanted to say that its a i just wanted to say that it� s a discussion that is way overdue. When i was younger i suffered with periods as a teenager. The pain started and it kind of progressed. It got really bad and at the point i couldn� t function. At work there were times when i couldn� t even go to work. Because i had a male manager it was so difficult for me to discuss it with my manager. At 1. I to discuss it with my manager. At 1. 1 had to fill in a sick leave when i came back to say why i was off sick. Ijust went i came back to say why i was off sick. I just went on i came back to say why i was off sick. Ijust went on google and would googled the medical term. He was like, what� s that . Embarrassingly i had to explain to him that it� s to do with period pain. He said, oh, that shouldn� t be a big deal. It wasn� tjust the pain, it was the heavy bleeding, every time i got up, because i was working with men as my colleagues, whenever i got up i would be very conscious of checking myself. That selfconsciousness of checking myself. That selfconsciousness is i of checking myself. That selfconsciousness is a i of checking myself. That selfconsciousness is a huge of checking myself. That self consciousness is a huge thing. We say goodbye to viewers on bbc news and bbc two now, but the conversation continues on bbc radio 5 live and bbc sounds. We have another hour of debate coming up. Live from london. This is bbc news deadly and dangerous wildfires rip through hawaii a candidate in ecuador� s is assassinated while on the come in trail. Politicians are set to question Senior Police in Northern Ireland about major a data breach of officers and civilian staff details. Hello. This is bbc news. The death toll from the wildfires in the Us State Of Hawaii has now risen to at least 36 people. Large parts of the Tourist Town Of Lahaina on the Island Of Maui have been burned to the ground. Firefighters are still trying to get the fires under control. There were reports some people had jumped into the ocean to escape the fast moving flames. This is the aftermath of the wildfires. Officials said it is still difficult to determine the true extent of the damage on maui, and have warned the death toll may rise