Coming up on sportsday on bbc news big sam is back. Hes returning to football management with everton, after signing an 18 month deal to take over at goodison park. Good evening. Theresa may says donald trump was wrong to share tweets from a british far right organisation. Despite them, and his subsequent tweet about her effectively telling her to mind her own business she insists the special relationship continues. But britains ambassador to the us has visited the white house to raise concerns about the president s tweets. The president s spokesperson has brushed off any criticism saying he is only expressing his concern about islamist extremism. More from our correspondent alex forsyth, whos been with the Prime Minister, on her visit to jordan. This was a trip focused on building relationships around the world. But while theresa may was meeting kings and ministers in jordan, a major diplomatic row was brewing elsewhere. President trump had been personally rebuked by downing street for sharing far right videos online. His response to theresa may, on twitter, of course. Dont focus on me, focus on the destructive radical islamic terrorism that is taking place in the uk. Madam Prime Minister. Her tour of the middle east suddenly required diplomacy of a different kind. The fact that we Work Together does not mean we are afraid to say when we think the United States have got it wrong and be very clear with them. I am very clear that re tweeting from britain first was the wrong thing to do. He tweeted effectively telling you to stay out of his business. Is that acceptable behaviour from a supposed ally . It is an enduring relationship that is there because it is in both our national interests. What of the much anticipated state visit by President Trump . An invitation of a state visit has been extended and accepted. Weve yet to set a date. Thank you. In her speech she, theresa may had little choice but to respond to this tweet. It was aimed directly at her. This, another test of her leadership, how she maintains authority yet de escalates a potential row with a friend. The us president , forging friendships of his own. Youve been a great friend and we appreciate it. Has so far shown little regret. He shared videos posted by this woman, jayda fransen, the videos posted by this woman, jayda fra nsen, the dep videos posted by this woman, jayda fransen, the dep leader of the anti muslim Group Britain first. Today, at the white house, donald trump s spokeswoman was asked if hed known who she was at the time. No, i dont believe so, but again, i think he knew what the issues are and that is that we have a real threat of extreme violence and terrorism and not just threat of extreme violence and terrorism and notjust in this country, but across the globe, particularly in europe and that was the point he was making. But in westminster plenty disagree with President Trump, and questioned theresa mays approach. Shes never invited she should never have invited she should never have invited him after a few weeks of being elected. We have to be sure about who it is we are inviting. Its very difficult to see how you can continue to rely on the goodwill of some of these fundamentally, evil racists completely contrary to our owii racists completely contrary to our own values. So while the Prime Minister practice diplomacy in the middle east, relations elsewhere we re middle east, relations elsewhere were tested. Theresa may once again under scrutiny not just at were tested. Theresa may once again under scrutiny notjust at home but around the globe. Alex forsyth, bbc news, jordan. Our north america correspondent nick bryant is in washington. This is not the kind of diplomacy we normally see. Its rare for a british Prime Minister to rebuke a us president. How damaging is this to the so called special relationship . The only time most americans have seen a british Prime Minister public rebuke publicly rebuked by us president is in the movies, in love actually. This doesnt happen in real life. Disagreements in the special relationship, and there have been many over 70 years, are ordinarily sorted out behind closed doors, through normal diplomatic channels. This is anything but normal. The president re tweeting those far right anti muslim videos. Then launching a highly personalised attack on theresa may. All that would suggest that donald trump doesnt really regard the special relationship is that special. Certainly not the way that his predecessors did. It also suggests that he knows that special relationship is an asymmetrical relationship. It always has been. America has always had the upper hand. But particularly so now, in this brexit climate, where britain is so desperate to get a pros brexit trade deal with america. But arguably this shows weakness and vulnerability on both sides of the atlantic. This tweeting from the president is not boosting americas standing in the world. America first increasingly looks like america alone. For downing street problem is that this shows britain as well is increasingly isolated, in a very difficult spot with europe and a problematic relationship with its closest ally. America. Nick bryant in washington, thank you. Net migration in the uk the difference between the numbers of people arriving and leaving has fallen sharply in the year after the brexit referendum. Thats a drop of around a third compared to the previous year. And most of that drop is due to fewer people coming from the eu. Our Home Affairs Correspondent tom symonds looks at why the numbers are going down. Is this the start not of an exodus but of a brexodus . Were now getting some hard numbers. French Business Consultant cyrille viossat is planning to go. Polish mathematician dominika czerniawska has already gone back to warsaw. London still is the best city of the European Union, but once its not in the European Union it loses so much appeal that berlin, amsterdam, and for some people warsaw, are far more attractive. Investment has dried up. Certainly i see my clients. I work in Financial Services and my clients have started to move jobs, and of course because im consultant to those clients, if the roles are elsewhere then the jobs will be elsewhere. Theyre among thousands whove spent the months since that night calculating their futures in a post brexit europe. Decisions which are reflected in todays figures. Since the vote, 572,000 people have arrived to live in the uk, but 342,000 have left. The difference is that crucial net migration figure. 230,000 more People Living in the uk than a year ago. But following the brexit vote, that figure has fallen sharply by 106,000, the biggest fall since records began. Many employers are deeply worried about the loss of potential workers, but not ken beswick, who runs a stationery firm in south wales. This has been a land of milk and honey. The people of Great Britain have suffered because of it for far too long, and so the drop to a quarter of a million we really welcome, but after having said that, a quarter of a million extra people is like another city of people being added to the country and straining our resources. So some professional europeans in office jobs are now leaving. There has also been a fall in the number of people coming here looking for work but a brexodus . Its still the case that 107,000 more europeans came to britain in the last year than left. The numbers today are quite dramatic but you do have to put them in perspective. Were only back to levels of net migration we saw in 2014, so its not a massive historical anomaly, and the vast majority of eu citizens in the uk are not going anywhere. They have been here for a long time and emigration does not yet qualify as a brexodus at this point. Some businesses, like hotels, depend on foreign workers. Francesca came from italy after the brexit vote. As soon as i came here in london, i applied for a job and had the chance to start work here and i think its really amazing and not all the cities can give you this opportunity. As for the government, well, it wants to cut net migration by more than half again. Tom symonds, bbc news. The care home market in the uk is not sustainable unless more money is put into it. Thats the conclusion of the competition and markets authority, which says there is a billion pound a yearfunding gap, and that care homes are being propped up by charging higher prices for people who fund themselves, while local authorities fail to pay enough. 0ur social Affairs Correspondent alison holt has more. Would you like some popcorn . Would you like a cookie . At the home of comfort in southsea in hampshire, they are settling down for an afternoon of old films. For more than 100 years, they have provided nursing care for older people, but that is no protection from the financial pressures outlined in todays report. Gwen board is 90 and moved in a few months ago with the help of her daughters. The girls felt i couldnt cope on my own. And i bowed to the inevitable. Shes self funding, because she had her own home and some savings, but it also means she pays more than someone eligible for council care. It doesnt seem fair that some people pay more than others for the same care. But unfortunately, thats the way, thats the rules at the moment. As a charity, they dont have the same overheads as a commercial organisation. It helps them keep their fees down, but their administrator says there is still a big gap between actual costs and what councils pay. We are asking them for £725 week to provide nursing care and we dont get it. We get about £560. So the difference in those figures is quite astonishing, i think. There is a cross subsidy happening from people paying for their own care, to people who are supposed to be publicly funded. Todays competitions and markets Authority Report says on average a care home place in the uk costs self funders £44,000 a year. That is about £12,000, or 40 , more than someone paid for by a council. This year long study by the competition and markets authority paints a picture of a system under huge financial pressure. And one which is often confusing, and unfairfor people who need it at a stressful time in their lives. We think its urgent, we think the system is not in a great place, and we think the pressure is mounting because you have both increasing demand because of demographic changes, but also we know that labour costs are responsible for a significant proportion of the cost and overall costs are increasing as well. As more people live longer, the cma warns investment in providing support for the future is essential, and without it, care homes will close. The government says it has put extra money into care and will publish a green paper on its funding in the summer. Alison holt, bbc news. Pressures on social care have a direct impact on the Health Service. Next year, health care will be rationed and waiting times will increase, unless the nhs in england gets more money. Thats the warning from Health Service leaders, who have been meeting to discuss what level of service they can deliver. 0ur Health Editor hugh pym is here. A new stark warning today that some treatments are not going to be available either at all, or without a considerable wait. Thats right. This was nhs englands formal response to the budget, after having warned before the chancellors speech that there would be significant increases in waiting lists, if there wasnt a big cash increase. The treasury did allocate more money but nhs england says its not enough and the result next year will be patients waiting longer and key targets are waiting for routine surgery key targets are waiting for routine surgery and an a e just wont be met, because there is in the money to do so. They are there to give patients assurances about quality of care. Whats more, if clinical rudiger clinical regulators come up rudiger clinical regulators come up with approval of new treatments and so on, nhs england wont allow them to go out to patients unless they are considered affordable. The health secretaryjeremy hunt has responded in comments, saying the government is absolutely committed to nhs constitutional standards, thats targets, thats why we announced an increase to the nhs in the budget. We are determined to hit those targets, so stand by for some pretty difficult negotiations between the government and nhs england over what precisely can be delivered to patients next year. Thank you. One of the so called chennai six, who was released from an indian prison on monday, has spoken of his relief and delight at regaining his freedom after four years. Nick dunn, a former soldier, was among six britons acquitted of weapons charges by an indian court. He said his family would now have the best christmas ever. Hes been speaking to our india correspondent, sanjoy majumder. Taking an innocent mans freedom away is the worst crime i believe that can be committed. Former paratrooper nick dunn has just been released from an indian prison, one of six britons arrested four years ago and charged with smuggling weapons. Trump question you have got to do a proper investigation. Youve got to know that person is guilty. This wasnt like that. It was, we dont care youre guilty. Hes now traded his cramped, squalid prison cell for a plush hotel room. His sister, lisa, has come out to india to take him back home. And he just cant wait. Its going to be like four christmases that ive missed rolled in one. Its going to be the best christmas my family could ever wish for. Its been a long, desperate wait for justice inside this chennai prison. Nick and his mates were working as security guards on an American Anti piracy ship, seized off the indian coast. The police accused them of illegally carrying the weapons and ammunition on board. On monday, an indian court threw out all the charges. I was out training, one of the guys shouted me over. I could hear it in his voice, it was excitement. And he went, full acquittal. And i. Stopped in my tracks and it was like someone just slapped me, because it was a shock, you know, and it was an amazing feeling. While they were in prison waiting to learn their fate, the mens families led a Massive Campaign back home to press for their release, petitioning the government, including the Prime Minister. Theyre delighted and the men overcome with gratitude. Knowing there are lovely people out there, lovely, amazing, supportive people, and ill never be able to thank them as much as what im trying to do now. His nightmare finally over, its now time to go home. Sanjoy majumder, bbc news, chennai. The Democratic Unionist Party has threatened to withdraw its support for theresa mays minority government if there is any kind of special deal between Northern Ireland and the eu. Its in response to efforts to try to break the deadlock over how to continue Free Movement between Northern Ireland and the republic of ireland. At present thousands of people and millions of pounds of goods cross the border every day. With 16 months to go until brexit, our ireland correspondent Chris Buckler is in newry. Finding a solution to this issue of the border is proving very difficult, but without it, talks on trade with the eu cant begin. Yes. As is wellknown, the British Government is desperate for those to begin. Iam government is desperate for those to begin. I am standing in front of one of the 300 crossing points between Northern Ireland and the republic. I am standing just above another. This is the main belfast dublin motorway. Anyone of a certain age will remember being stopped by customs as they travelled that route in the past in years gone by. Of course, that all seems a long time ago. However, there are concerns that could return. The eu is worried about the re emergence of what is called a hard border. It isa it is a practical solution but deeply controversial. It will withdraw its crucial support for the conservative government at westminster. 0n the island of ireland, culture does not recognise borders, and neither do people. The uilleann pipes are one of the traditional sounds of this land, and in his workshop that sits just a mile from where Northern Ireland meets the republic, Martin Gallen makes the pipes. Hes closely watching the slow negotiations to try to carve out a deal that will see the uk leave the eu, and he fears it will mean a return of checks on the irish border. Theyre on about promising that there would be no hardening of the border, but i honestly cant see how theyre going to stand by that promise. Neither the British Government, nor the European Union, wants a return of customs posts on the border bridges that connect ireland, north and south. The eu says one way to ensure that is for Northern Ireland to stay inside the Customs Union and the single market, even if the rest of the uk leaves. Its an offer that has angered unionists, and their support is vital to the conservative government at westminster. If there is any hint that, in order to placate dublin and the eu, theyre prepared to have Northern Ireland treated differently than the rest of the united kingdom, then they cant rely on our vote because they have undertaken an agreement with us our votes for their support for the union. Thats a fear of a move towards a united ireland, and it would probably mean new checks for ships crossing the irish sea effectively creating a border between two parts of the uk. But there could be benefits for Northern Irelands troubled economy. This border Business Park was opened in 2013, using £6 million of public money. Four years on, all 22 acres lie largely empty. Last month, one firm did finally sign up to take a site here. And others might be more likely to follow after brexit, if being based here meant you can trade either within the eu or as part of the uk. Just as we have for our people, we can choose identity, whether it be british or irish, our products can be exactly the same. And if we take this opportunity, we become probably one of the most attractive investment locations anywhere in the world. No one wants new barriers in the cities and towns that sit all along this border, and the Irish Government are still prepared to stand in the path of trade talks to ensure that. This is an historic moment and we are not going to allow the re emergence of a physical border on this island. And the European Union will support us on that, so theres going to be no need to use a veto. That does sound, though, that if you had to use a veto, you would be prepared to use it. The eu side, in my view, will not progress phase two unless we make sufficient progress in all three areas. And its the border thats the Sticking Point . The borders the Sticking Point. Irelands uilleann pipes were once known as the union pipes, but no one is sure of the consequences once this island is at the edge of two unions, both the eu and the uk. Chris buckler, bbc news, at the irish border. A brief look at some of the days other other news stories. Paul worthington, the father of a 13 month old girl who died following unexplained injuries, broke down in tears when asked at her inquest if he sexually abused her. Mr worthington wiped away tears as he refused 252 times to answer questions about the death of his daughter. Poppi died suddenly five years ago. The police have apologised forfailing to properly investigate her death. Police in london have released cctv footage of a man believed to have carried out 25 sexual assaults on women and children. The incidents have taken place across the south east of the city with the youngest victim just eight years old. The Trump Administration has attempted to quell media speculation that the us secretary of state, rex tillerson, could soon be replaced. Mr tillerson has been at odds with mr trump over Foreign Policy recently. The secretary of state was even reported to have privately described the president as a moron. The white house spokeswoman says mr tillerson is continuing to carry out mr trumps agenda. The Argentinian Navy has given up rescue attempts. A big operation has failed to locate the submarine and there is no chance of finding anyone alive. The government is facing criticism for failing to give schools clear advice on how to deal with the increasing number of sexual assaults by pupils on other children. Its more than a year since mps called for updated guidelines. The government has promised some interim advice and a consultation on bigger changes by the end of this school term. 0ur education editor branwenjeffreys has been talking to the mother of one Primary School victim, who feels they were badly let down. I should warn you this report contains some graphic descriptions. Primary School Playgrounds are meant to be safe spaces but it was at school that six year old bella was raped. Day after day by boys using theirfingers, penetrating her, hurting bella physically and mentally. She is a shell of who she used to be. They destroyed her spirit. They destroyed who she was. It was hell. We literally retreated into our home. She wouldnt go out to play. She wouldnt walk to the shop with me anymore. She wouldnt go to the park in case they were there. They are monsters in her head. Bella was hurt by boys too young to be charged with a crime. This isnt an isolated case. Theres been an increase in Sexual Offences by children aged ten or under. In 2013 2014, 204 were recorded. By 20162017, 456 were logged by Police Forces in england and wales. How soon did it become clear to you that you were being left on your own to deal with what had happened . After about three days. After we had had to fight to have bella medically examined. Even though she was showing quite severe signs of physical discomfort, she could not sit down. We realised no one was going to come and help. What upset bellas mum most was the contrast. The boys were immediately given support by social services. No help was offered to her daughter. The police eventually agreed to record the assaults but bellas parents had other questions. Quite early on, we asked about bella and Senior School and we were literally dismissed. We said, surely you dont expect her to go to school with the boys he raped her . The answer we were given was, well, these boys have a right to an education. So, if you dont want bella co educated with those boys, youre going to have to move to a different area and go to a different school. Mps called for urgent action on sex assaults in schools more than a year ago. Last month, they called ministers to account. Do you think it is acceptable either to the girls, or to the schools, that two years will have passed for this guidance to come into force when we called for immediate action. Since that report, weve had a general election. The sexually abused girls have certainly taken note of that. And were going to be issuing interim replies concerning peer on peer abuse this term. Youll be dealing with this for the rest of her life. Yes. We know that. She really has never had a chance to have a normal childhood. But we have to help her because no one else is. But sometimes the thought of knowing the other hurdles she is going to face breaks my heart. The government told us no family would have to go through this. Schools have a legal duty to keep children safe. There will be a new version of the guidelines but they wont be in force until september 2018. Too late, say some parents, for those already harmed. Football. And everton have officially named sam alla rdyce as their new manager on an 18 month deal. Allardyce was at their game last night to see wayne rooney score a hat trick in a win over west ham. Tomorrow, england will find out who theyll be up against in next summers World Cup Finals. Speaking in moscow ahead of the draw, manager Gareth Southgate says that england are in it to win it but concedes that his Young Players lack a little experience for the big matches. Hes been speaking to our sports editor, dan roan. Having guided england through an unbeaten world cup qualifying campaign, the challenge facing Gareth Southgate is about to get tougher. Banishing the memories of successive failures in major tournaments, and reviving National Team after recent turbulence will take time. But, having flown into moscow this evening on the eve of the draw for the 2018 world cup, the manager told me he was ready to learn englands fate. Excited. Ive just been at a dinner with all of the other coaches, and you recognise were one of only 32 countries to qualify. So its an exciting moment for everybody. You can worry yourself silly, worrying about who youre going to play. Weve got to be prepared to beat everybody. Tonight, southgate confirmed this is where his squad will be based, a no frills spa hotel in the village of repino, on a secluded stretch of the gulf of finland. Work already under way to upgrade the training facilities. Weve looked at whats best in terms of hotel, paired with training ground, paired with travel, paired with climate. Of course, when youre looking at any venue, you never get absolutely everything youd like. But we feel that was the best option for us. This is where all the teams want to be playing onjuly 15th next year, moscows cavernous luzhniki stadium, where the World Cup Final will be staged. In recent years, england have proved highly effective in qualifying campaigns, but then they have failed when it really counts in the major tournaments themselves. They have won just one match over the last two world cups. Realistically, how far can they go here in russia next summer . We cant go to a world cup and not try and win it. A lot of these players are going to peak maybe in two orfour years time. But we cant just write off a tournament. I dont think anybody in england would accept that. If i offered you the quarterfinal of the world cup next summer now, would you take it . Not now, no. But we havent won a knockout match since 2006, so our last two tournaments have been a disappointment. So weve got to remember where we are starting from with this group of Young Players. Equally, they are fiercely ambitious. The evolution of the england squad and southgate has seen an emphasis on younger players, and the manager says he has been impressed with their sense of unity. Theyve got so many foreign players at their club that i think coming together with other english players is actually a strength. Its something they look forward to. So, the environment we have is very healthy. This has been an unprecedented year of success for englands youth teams, with both the under 17s and under 20s crowned world champions