we ve discovered in the process that our that were all trying t find connection with each other is ultimately the common ground we find. and from that at least great conversations and sometimes illumination and sometimes transformation. it s kind of miraculous. it is great you talk in this book about your perceptions of god, your relationship with jesus and the fact that you don t think he would be canceling anybody. when i read that in your comments i thought i think abou the woman who was caught in adultery and all these people were ready just on her and said you without sin, you cast the first tone. he said where are your condemno as he said they re all gone, he said i don t condemn you either. go and sin no more. he had such zero all coming forgiving and accepting attitud people all three society and al kinds of different people. it s interesting to see how people view him.