is complicated by the fact that they didn t having a says to the traditional rituals. so my advice to them is to figure out what you need to do to honor your loss and to live with it. you know, maybe you access therapy now because you couldn t do in-person therapy during the pandemic at its worse. perhaps it s figuring out how to bring your person along no matter what and really acknowledging and owning and holding space for your feelings. because they are complicated and it is really hard. you make a good point how so many of us were deprived to have a funeral or a gathering for other once. another xhont sentiment is people say surely they are overwhelmed by the sheer number of deaths they feel whether their loved one has been reduced to a statistic.