order to survive. and she said, okay. you d better be good. it sounds almost fearless, but you also write bluntly about fear in the book. you say, quote, i didn t seem to fear physical consequences. i only feared emotional consequences. did you have any of those fears then? i did. i mean, my father was also a musician. both my parents were musicians. my mother saying she was a singer in acapella groups in the 50s and my father was a classically trained flutist. when i took off to hit the road, i knew that that would drive a wedge between my father and i. you don t share his entire professional world view and you don t share his politics. what do you share with him? i am who i am because of my