has anyone ever described you as quirky or odd or goofball? absolutely, including jen, and probably anyone that s ever met me. remy is a real force. yes, and we knew when he walked in a room. at some points you re like, oh, here comes remy. you know? but their opposites attract relationship somehow just worked. remy made a good salary as an ibm project manager. and jen seemed happy being a stay-at-home mom to their two daughters and a son, says childhood friend theresa leiser. that s pretty much the biggest thing that she talked about was her kids. jen was a sunday school teacher, girl scout troop leader. yes. knitting instructor? yes. she was also very good at cooking. very martha stewart? yes, uh-huh. remy was focused on fitness, and he had big goals. if you want to attain anything in life, you have to have a plan. his plan was to run marathons. lots of them.