accepted the community and to be able to be a cce pted by the community and to be able to be accepted by our parents. the reason i would not come at my was because i would like to be disowned. the reason i would not come out to my pa rents reason i would not come out to my parents is because i would be disowned. hello. welcome to the programme, we re live until 11 this morning. do get in touch if one of your relatives has received poor care or if you work in a care home and are worried about workload and standards. we also want to hear about excellent care and your ideas for how things can change. do get in touch on all the stories we re talking about this morning use the hashtag #victorialive. if you text, you will be charged at the standard network rate. our top story today. the chairman of the iraq inquiry, sirjohn chilcot, has told the bbc that the former prime minister, tony blair, was not straight with the nation, or his inquiry, about the decisions made in the run