Feelings, mad if we don t do it the right way, or nervous. what can you do to help yourself stay calm? yeah, stop, name your feeling and take a belly breath. reporter: down the hall in third grade, show and tell is students sharing what was good and bad about the day pfr. show of hands, who likes morning meeting and what do you like about it? what i like about the morning meeting is the good things. reporter: what s the secret to getting a third grader to open up about how they feel? i think waiting is important, so making sure that they know that they don t just have to share good things. making it very open. reporter: this is call social emotional learning work sel, and it can be controversial. stop teaching sel in high school and take emergency action to remove it now. reporter: in some states, parent groups are angry about