greg: at least we got the pronoun right. you can be sure that they don t worry about pronouns. they just kill you. greg: kat, i think that we should all have our own pronoun. i ve selected mine. it is opera. so from now on you are to call me oprah all the time because if you don t i will feel some sort of emotional pain. what if i insist on doing that forever? greg: i didn t dare you to. what is your preferred pronoun? i was reading about this and reading a lot about it and all the different once real gender neutral pronounce. i couldn t find a difference between them. you are just supposed to try them out and see which ones feel the best. i have not done that. but i ve not felt compelled to do that because i am she/her but i don t really feel a certain way about that either. i don t think about it that