from her iphone, jen chatted with other players from all over the world. it began as a way to pass the time, but became in remy s words an obsession. it started turning into an addiction, and she was on it quit a lot, close to eight hours a day, maybe more, even if the evenings. she was definitely sucked into it. she was checking out a little bit? very much so. eileen and her girls spent lots of time at the ramsaran house. she says she saw firsthand how her martha stewart-like friend was changing. she wasn t cooking. you know, they were ordering out every night. you know, i did their laundry one night because it was just so stacked up, the kids didn t have anything, and i said, do you want me to do your laundry? and she s like, sure. while on a recent shopping trip together, eileen says all jen could talk about were her gaming friends and there was one player in particular a british man named rob with whom she was clearly smitten. and she would joke around