advancement, but for to be able to contribute to(3,t greater society. i think we have lost some of that in the way we re parenting. you also write about mattering. ráháhejv you re writing. that we as parents hik our children feel as they matter for them, not for what they vo achieve, and the importance of seems we ask them how is your school, did you finish your homework, that s not clear to them. we love our kidsz÷ unconditionally. that love doesn t always feel unknlt. i heard that time and time again that they thought their parents loved and cared about them more when they were doing well. so affection to our kids, what s your final piece of advice? to make home a haven from the pressure. they get it from everywhere. let them recover at home. let them know their worth is never on the line at home. they are worth who they are, whether they are successful or