And i think that is really a testimony to the kind of parents they were. but the girls where their first priority. she became the dean of prescott college-y. she taught psychology there. but, life is a river. never the same for long. steve decided to change careers. left the academic life, became a financial adviser, very successful to. and there were other changes, more difficult once. nobody knows all of what goes on inside a marriage, but i had to talk to both of them about it. and their lives were moved in different directions. as much as they still cared for each other, there was infidelities. steve had an affair. they decided to separate. carol loved steve fiercely. she fought hard for her marriage until the end. but in 2008, after more than 25 years of marriage, time living apart.