and news media to try to get his message out. what message was he trying to get out in the media? that jennifer had changed, and that she wasn t, you know, the mother, wife, housekeeper, cook that she used to be. try to deflect off of himself? is that what you believed? oh, yeah, absolutely. and put this on jennifer. jen s childhood friend, theresa , 700 miles away, noticed the same thing as she read remy s friend updates on facebook. he started saying things about jen, like you know, well, she wasn t really a mother for the past six months. she was she had disconnected herself from the family. he seems like a total over-sharer. yes. yes. over-shared everything. and theresa thought remy was flirting with people who were trying to find his wife, like that psychic he enlisted. they had some weird exchanges on facebook. and he said something about her putting on a bikini and going outside in the snow, and that that s what she should do.