people that are very happy. yes, there are people that will say, oh, no we re having an open relationship and all this stuff. and it works for a while but those are people who don t know how to achieve genuine intimacy because real intimacy is diminished by outside flow, let s say you can of attention. but in some societies it s okay to have more than one wife, to have children by it s okay. this is america and this is our values about it. i understand and i m not passing judge but from my experience having worked with couples that are happier and flourish more, real intimacy is a much healthier place for people to hang out, even if people have multiple wives. usually within that they at least have one that has a real intimacy. thank you, dr. drew. you have heard why men may chet on their spouses but is there anything you can do to prevent it? our resident human behavior expert dr. wendy walsh joins me again with some answers, next. i want to know.
which was tied up for a year with the investigation and impeachment. so for the next hour in partnership with time magazine, we ll take a look at what makes wealthy powerful men who seem to have it all risk everything for adulterous sex. the latest revelations were bombshells, first a criminal accusation against the head of the international monetary fund by a hotel housekeeper. dominique strauss-kahn has since resigned his post and is out of jail on monday but even before the ink was dry on that headline, former california governor arnold schwarzenegger publicly admitted fathering a child with his family s housekeeper over a decade ago. and as cnn s tom foreman explains, these two men both very wealthy and politically connected, are simply the latest in a crowded rogue s gallery of cheaters. reporter: the former california governor has plenty of company. i did not have sexual relations with that woman. reporter: ever since president clinton was caught fooling around