Didn t fully understand just how dependent my same-sex marriage is on a woman s right to have an abortion. now i do, and i m terrified. the tremors of this political earthquake reach me the next day in los angeles, during a conversation with ian mackie. that out gay state representative who went viral with his impassioned speech against not just legislation targeting trans kids. he pointed out the underpinning for lgbtq rulings, including burden feld versus hodges, the 2015 decision that legalized same sex marriage. without row and a few other valuable high court decisions that guarantee our rights to liberty and privacy, the foundation for obergefell s gone. and then more than 568,000 same-sex marriages perform since then, including my own, could be invalidated. as he told me later in an email, griswold, loving, row, lawrence and oh bigger fell survive only