more open about it because people who are obese and morbidly obese, the averting of the eyes is part of the shame because we don t talk about it. somebody who is morbidly obese don t you want to talk to fwhem their health and make them feel accepted and understood. this is a lightning round. i address this in a fat court. i went to a food court and talked to people there about their weight. the last person who said i don t like my doctor because they judge me. i don t go to the doctor. use your waist size instead of your weight. your waste should be less than half your height. how tall are you six times 12 inch, 72 inches plus four. 76 inches. 38 inches. if your waist size is more than that 38 inches don t do a texas dunk. men after 40 never buy a new belt. they walk around like this. so i m good.