what i ll do is think, if i m cooking for you, get a feeling of the favors you like. have you in mind, imagine you coming over to my place, and then i ll sort of just think of flavors for you. so, with oprah it was about entertaining. i was imagining her inviting friends around a cocktail party. all bite-sized things. reese witherspoon had messaged me saying, i want to learn a family-style meal i can put down on the table so we did a big pasta dish. i think of that person and get inspired by them. sounds like an invitation. it is. your dad s episode, the first of the second season, he actually shows his drink, the macarena. macarita. it s a margarita with a twist. by the way, i noticed you get the shot. i m like, okay, that s great. and then another, and then another. and then he helpfully tells everybody, only drink one, but