about sam s dating life at dartmouth. the lonely forest in new hampshire. i have a different experience but to your point, it was just what i say to people as go challenge yourself a little bit and don t change who you are but expose yourself a little bit. does not mean you disagree with those people but it helps you be sympathetic to them and humanize those people who hold those views. i would be honest with you, i had a little bit of problems with my dear close friends and family members, voting for a guy who accused me as murder. mika have not worked through it.