raf sanchez in lviv, thank you very much. we re going to talk a little more about that, about that fog of war, about the dichotomies in wars. the human mourning at the grave of hoar 47-year-old son. she s at a cemetery right outside kyiv. he was killed while delivering humanitarian aid to his neighbors. imagine that? and tragically, not everyone has been able to find their loved ones. nbc s molly hunter reports. reporter: 26-year-old careenau saves every message she receives. i don t know why i save them, the young police officer add mitts. it s important to me.