that s tough. did you seem depressed about the weight gain? absolutely. yes. her cousin recalls chris said that he didn t mind what size heather was and a few years into the relationship, he asked heather to marry him. and it seemed his love didn t waver as the numbers on heather scale only continue to rise after the birth of their two children. did he make her feel good? yes. she felt beautiful, she felt loved, she felt wanted and taken care of. chris also took on the role of state home dad while heather worked and attended college part-time. it s a about ten years to get her degree from college and it was almost to the day that she graduated from college that everything changed. at one point before graduation heather tip the scales at 400 pounds but diane says that hard one to plummet now became a roadmap for how they re pointing her to a brighter and later future.