Children and grandchildren, each of you is literally a tribute to her enormous capacity to love. i know it s hard, but i promise you she is always with you in your mind, in your heart, and part of your soul. i promise you, you will have a tough decision, you ll be asking yourself what would she want me to do? not a joke. remember i said it. that is going to happen. and kathy and john, what you ve maintained through your lives was always an anchor to madeleine. through all the ups and downs of life. what a gift. what a gift. what a family. you know, from that first trans atlantic crossing on the s.s.