get shot or killed? i was 13. the first time me ever seeing somebody shot, somebody die. it was scary. i was 9 years old, and i knew something was going to happen. it was like, three, four guys sitting outside and they shot everybody. somebody gets shot every day. that s just how i grew up with. some people chose to be in a gang for survival. some people close to be in a gang because peer pressure. it s a doomness. i think it s in our dna, all of us, to want to be a part of something. you know that gangs, they re not going anywhere, but i think wa we have to do is just to change the mind-set. don t miss a brand new episode of this is life with lisa ling tomorrow at 10:00 p.m.