fashioned gentleman type. yes, he was. it seemed a match made in cyber wedding. the newlyweds bought a house close to teresa s family in ohio. but happily ever did not last. in october 2006 came a terrible blow. teresa s daughter was killed in a car crash, leaving her infant daughter and toddler son without a mom. roy lovin jr is teresa s older son and sara s brother. she was 21 years old, on her way to work one morning, and i guess hydro planed, swerved and hit a tree. parents are not supposed to bury their children. no. and then the fact that she had two little babies, two little kids and the fathers were not really in the picture, somebody had to step up and take them kids. and that was your mom? she was the first one with her hands out, ready and willing to take them. teresa and ray transitioned