certainly, you know, ended up getting a big boost with the free love generation. remember, it was all without consequences. that was one of the biggest lies ever told, especially toti women. god. was kicked to the curbch in the schools and theoo t religiously mindedhe became increasingly caricatured in film. now when i was a kid there were a lot of families that had a lot of kids and we all kinded of figured it out. we help each other out. we were neighbors but at some point big families were suddenly considered weird and selfish fringe. but offbi course the opposite is true . children require sacrificeng, children are love. and as mother teresa said, they re our most precious treasures. before i adopted o my three kid, i focused way too much on myself. frankly, i m not that interesting. it wasn t good. sadly, there are many who believe that children are just potential problems,