and she chose not to do that because she knew that you had to look like you were obeying the rules, as well as actually do it. and she also knew because of the people in the country who did not have that opportunity, there are other widows who stood alone at their husbands funerals, that she had to do the same. that she had to lead and set an example. and whether you like the monarchy or not, whether you approve of the queen or do not, the fact that we ve got one. she is someone who was lead by example and she has lived her life according to the sense of public duty what we ve got is a government that from top to bottom does not set an example. at all. the example they set is disgraceful. other doing is uniting us and knowing what the verse possible behaviour is. it is difficult to know at this stage what else they could do that would be more offensive or wrong or insulting, not only to the covid 19 bereaved and the queen and all the other millions of us who do not see their loved