This video, after the murder, in which jim said things about carole they found deeply disturbing. because, carol, i ve lived a life like an old married couple. he was actually rather obsessed with carole. i have emails that he s written about how wet he and carol sherr is more than anyone could picture. that no one will understand the bond that they have, and how close they are to each other. he referred to her, to some people, as his girlfriend, but she never had any romantic interest in him. and he had tremendous romantic interest in her. very much so. thus, in your mind, a reason to be angry one night? certainly. was it possible carroll rebuffed him, and he got angry? the detectives didn t ask those questions, said steve s family. soon, it was too late. six months after carroll s