and i think what s amazing and we re talking about this. as you said, that s who he was. that s the thing he sort of brought. even as this dorky dad, he brought this model of just showing so much love to the people around him, and it wasn t an act. i ve got to tell you something, you re absolutely right. to a great extent, we re all dorky dads. there s no manual, okay. there s no book saying this is how you do this. this is how you handle that. so we all stumble our way through it somehow. but it s the love of our children and the love for our children that gets us through it and prioritizes things. let me just tell you, and i guess i can say it now, bob s old email address was bobbydaddy. that speaks volumes. what was his priority? bobby daddy. that s who he was. the dorkiness was something that kids related to and parents