confusing and hectic. once we got her to her hometown of rome s mount, california, where she was honored by all of her family and friends and teachers, people that she grew up with. we as a family became aware that we would need to pay for her transport to arlington we, as my son had chosen to willey her to rest their. and we were fortunate enough to have a nonprofit. we are working with how the private donor we donated his time and services. so no bills were ever received, no money was ever paid, there was no refusal by d.o.d. to pay a bill, because we never had a bill we. my hope in bringing it up was so that future families wouldn t have the worry at the time of trying to win figure out how to transport remains.