sexual pleasure, slut gets used as a word to it s a narrative that gives men permission in anti-pleasure. it s the language that we did that says this is a woman that says you have permission to touch without her consent. so for me, you know, if you want to play with that word in private space around consenting sexual acttist. that itself your business, right? if slut works for you, then what i also don t want to do is a policing about it in a big sense and if you like this set of practices privately, you are problematic. look arc woman in control of her own sexuality is the dangerous patriarchy we have. she understands she owns her own body, she is di vesting for emergency if she s not doing the things they need them to do. itting a only ins that women