ciara and jarod. ciara is your wife, mother of your children. what do you think about the end, the brutality of it? it s alwful. i wouldnt wish that on anybody. they both enlisted in the army in the early 2000s. he and a friend cozied up to the pretty young recruit and tried to get her attention. we started talking about how none of the soldiers who got off the last bus looked like they were going to make it. and she stood up and she challenged me and she said, i m going to be the top of the class. i said, okay, and asked her if she wanted to go out that weekend. you had a momentus early day. is that too nosey a question? you know what i m referring to? i do. our first date, we conceived a child? yes. were you okay with that? yeah. i was okay, and i was excited. i d always wanted to be a father. ciara and jarod, intimate strangers, decided to make a go