arms, especially when in harp s way, come to know that there is a component of love in that bond. and one that you actually depend on. i discovered this personally in 2005 and 2006 deploying into the persian gulf as an army chaplain. general colin powell was the epitome of this reality and truth. recently a dear friend, erik montly, a younger african american man who grew up as a young boy in madison park, alabama on land that had been seated to the ancestors of slaves, shared this memory with me. when i was in high school my