having to tell my children, especially my son nico, that i have cancer. >> the first thought i had when i was diagnosed with cancer was this. how well i tell my kids? i have two. nico is 14 and sophia is 10. >> what do you remember about how i told you? >> you asked me what i thought of when i thought of breast cancer. and if i thought -- >> you said i think of a fight. >> once he knew, my son became one of the 2.85 coping with cancer. they urge kids to seek strength from each other. >> children and adults have very different life experiences. so part of the goal of educating kids about what cancer is is helping alleviate any of that