have to say to the people in florida today who endured this, some of whom lost kids in this, some of whom lost friends. brandon carasko, my first guest, a high school freshman who survived this. but you know there will be an aftermath of shock and grief that he's going to have to get through. sergio rosenblatt, his daughter alexandra was in the school, he was on this program earlier this hour. he said he doesn't know what they're going to do to get through this, to get through it emotionally. he says there's no book that's been written about how do the parents of a school shooting deal with this, with their survivor kids in the aftermath? what might you share with them about what's coming and how they might deal with it? >> most definitely i would say that, you know, the grieving process, there is no one way to completely go through a tragedy like this and the grief process. everyone grieves in their own time, in their own way. but i would really hope that the community that surrounds them would really embrace them and reach out to them. these children, these families,