adult outreach for the archdiocese of new york rejects the idea. if i become a priest i mary the church as my bride and my main priority would be the parishonners and the people in the pews.n if i become married a woman my wife with be my priority. i think it would be difficult to maintain two families. pope benedict left a church beset by scandal and a increased competition by other faiths. still a billion strong most catholics are convinced the church will rally and prosper. those are serious issues here in the united states we he have seen the effects of the sex abuse crisis and we have to be vigilant in the protection of children and how we deal with priests who have done criminal acts. but i don t think that if we are trying to narrow it down to who will theext pope be and how will they change that? i think it comes down to a much more local level. when confronted by his own