her heart started beating again. so we were all real hopeful at that point that she was going to survive. and got her on a helicopter and flew her. but lynn did not make. it she died at the hospital, she was just 37 years old. i remember the day as if it were yesterday. i received a call from a friend who said that i m sorry to inform you but there s been a bad accident. and lynn died yesterday. it was heartbreaking for kim that her friend was dead. and that she died in a way that was not quick and certainly was painful. the autopsy concluded after the 3000 pound suv fell on her. lynn hemorrhaged into her lungs and died from asphyxiation. the only marks on her body imprints from the brake rotor. the local douglas county sheriff s department opened an investigation a few days later. the coroner ruled lynn s death
kim knew that she liked lynn right away. but it was their shared spirituality that cemented their friendship. we were both into serving god and she just drew you, and she wanted to pray for, you show need to know what you needed. lynn was already out of college and working. kim was still in school. but they shape prayed and secrets. she told him what she wanted in a man. a christian husband, someone who loved the lord, who is a leader and strong. yet gentle. and we talked about, it if i started dating someone, or is she, did and we had a check and we talked about that. i don t know if that s the best person for you. did you have to prove? yes i did. after all that girl talk about boys, i lynn found a man that she did approve of. a man who she found in college. his name, harold henthorn. she just said there s this
anniversary weekend. that s not how it ended. tony had died after a fall from a cliff in the rocky mountain national park. her husband harold first wife lynn also died in a terrible accident. such an awful coincidence or was it? lynn s good friend kim says looking back there was some early red flags. you re saying even on the wedding day he was being controlling? it s just everything is always planned with him. even from one plan to another. but kim put her concerns aside and enjoyed the festivities. lynn and harold started their new life together in colorado. where he had a job as a geologist. lynn got a job as a social worker. kim was happy for lynn of course. but she also felt like her friend was slipping away. maybe it was the distance. maybe it was her commitment to
her marriage? but just like it would be with tony years later she could never get cam on the phone without harold listening in. many times i didn t know he was on the phone. but i would sense he was on the phone. and i would say, before i said something personal, lynn is harold on the phone? and he would always say hey kimmy. kim couldn t even get a long time with allen went she went to visit her in colorado. he was always with us. and he was always involved in every conversation. and we were never allowed to be alone. even if we were together. and he would even make comments when we would go to the bathroom. you girls hurry up in there. he would always make those like joking comments. that has to get on your nerves? at times it did, but he s always dismissed it as i want to get to know you. lynn loves you, i want to love you like linda s. i want to know who this crazy woman is that she loves. when harold wouldn t let kim
was dealing with their grief while trying to help haley and harold. he is a widower with a young daughter? right, there was no shortage people they re trying to help, and be in the home. we talked him several times, and every conversation had that element in it, of how wonderful all of his friends and his church family were being to him. within a day of tony s death, harold reached out to someone who had always been there for him, kim law farrier. i got a text and 7:30, tony fell, my bride is gone. i remember looking at this going, what s? and i ran upstairs, my husband was asleep. and i said tony s gone. kim found the tragedy almost unimaginable. remember, she had known harold for decades, and head been best friends with his first wife lynn, who died 17 years earlier. i felt so sad, i felt like i could not believe that tony was gone. i just felt like i wished i