wanted to tell me that he took things a little bit too far than he wanted to in this life and he wanted to help me now with others and healing process. so i was grateful for that. he really had changed his energy, his life at that point after crossing. pete: interesting book, worth reading. thank you. gretchen: if you want to read more, thanks so much. coming up next, surprise, you rich? one woman threw away more than $100,000, but she just got it all back. the incredible story coming up next. pete: and a huge show is still ahead. check out this guest list. fox nfl sunday host terry bradshaw, howie long, the great general ray derno and our own governor, mike huckabee, coming up on fox & friends. stay with us on this columbus day welcome aboard!