complaining whatsoever. the only thing she made us do was get straight as. when i see these women complaining, i love them, some of them are my friends, it seems a little out of left field. the authors point, these are privileged women, they have everything they could possibly want, i m coming from it from a nonparent perspective. until i have a child, i don t know. tom: it s all going to change. maybe i ll be that mom. hardest job ever. tom: you are a dad. i am. a mom, too, depending on the day of the week. tom: you shared the duties of the modern mom. i do, i don t know that there s a lot to complain about. to be honest, it s probably one of the easiest jobs i ve ever had. being a dad, it s pretty incredible. i don t live with my kid.